Re: Vietnamese WL
 

It natural to not trust her because of the nature of her job here in sg and the circumstances that you have met her.

I would suggest that you do not ask your friend to go "try/tempt" her. If in the end you are really with her, this friend might be part of your group and then she finds out. Not really good right?

From my own perspective, if you are comfortable with wat you are commiting into this relationship, then by all means go ahead but still be wary of possible upsets occurring.

Money wise, just know that if it does not work out, you'll be losing this money. So as with gambling, play with what you have and is comfortable with losing. Then you'll be fine even if one day this relationship does not work out...;)

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

up to individual on how they see money but seriously u need to read more and more about other bro experience,see how they encounter all this and make your own judgement on your future move,u will be suprise at how much u can learn from all this valuable posting from bro here

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

many samsters willing to help...some can speak excellent tieng viet and has the master level kc skills...of course u pay for everything la...:)

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Ya loh. 2k can buy a brand new motobike roi.

Mr antony wong if u wanna throw $$ into saigon river also not like that throw ma. Better give the $$ to me, i help u donate to charity. :D

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Why dun u trust her? What i'm going to say may sound blunt:
As u already mentioned, from the start u already know what kind of job she is in. U already said from the start, u are just playing with her, to win her heart so that her pussy will only belong to your small bro.
Also u r not 1st time come out to play, sure u know n even heard of stories of VBs cheat bros of money and feelings. All these contribute to the mistrust u have for her n yur lostness u feeling now.

Agreed with what bros H88, GQ n Cassanova have said. For me, there are 2 path u can take: either u follow yur big head n act logically or u follow yur small head and just be contented with being sextified. If u follow yur big head, then think logically, are u prepared to be a couple with her and if u think that the 2 of u can be together in the future, then take things slowly now, observe her more, know her more, understand her more. If u follow yur small head, then carry on "play" dun put too much emotions n $$ into it. If not when the time comes to part, u will feel like "人财两空". Also, remember: yes she maybe a WL, but she is still a human being, of blood n flesh, have mother n father like u n me. So give her some respect as a fellow human being. 不要玩得太过火.

My 2 dongs.

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

If u say like this i can only say "bo tay"...

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Quite puzzled: have u asked her why cannot marry you now? What is the reason? She said she wanna take care of sister? Which sister? They cannot work ha? They are physically disabled or mentally handicapped? Or she wanna earn more $$ b4 marrying you? Have u tried to ask? :confused:

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Can employ me to test her out :D

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Fortune tellers told them that they hv good life, no need work will get money. If they go outside work, they will die a terrible death......

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

Wa liao, trying to help a lost soul here u disturb disturb.
Oh? U can joke liao . U recovered from yur gal's departure ha? :D:p

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

finally some quetsions on WL as so much tcss here :)
i would say you are a big carrot and spoiling the market..
lucky i retire else i no place to stand.. :p

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

since she is here to work again, this will be a good testing ground for your patient and trust in her... but with all your offer and marriage proposal, why she still wanna work?

you better find out the truth...i think takin care of sister is an excuse.
with your willingness to give $2000 per month, her family can live happily and do wonders in vn already.

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

People have money to throw, let them throw lor. Sometimes they need to learn the hard way. It reminds me of a Singaporean whom i have met there around 7 years ago. He is not young, around 60 when he first went to VN. He married a VN lady whom he met in JC. The viet wife told him its very profitable to start a disco in HCM. He took his CPF funds and went to HCMC to start a disco under his wife's name . After a few years, his entire savings of over 500k SGD was conned by his viet wife. The wife divorced him and he came back Singapore without anything. He is now staying in an old folks home in Singapore. Singaporean man are no match to Vietnamese when it comes to conning.

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

should elect u to become a 'VMP' at jc street to hold the 'meet the people' session there :D

Re: Vietnamese WL
 

haha looks like spore men no match for any other nationality at all , seems like indo,thai,viet,prc etc can all con spore men :p