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All I can say is HFJ is an addiction.
Once you're addicted to it, KTV gals ain't that much kick anymore
To me la, the whole idea of the game is ROI (Return of Investment)
The cheapest singer i bed was for 200 bucks wahahaha I also dunno how that happened but guess she was investing cos after that day, chut pattern liao and keep asking me to go to her joint and I did!!!! But i didnt hang a cent for her
My most biggest failure was 8k on a singer & still cannot kenna.....that was done in 2 nites hor.....damn ai wan, her papers got prob using another name thus ICA sent her back...nabei
Other than that, I guess one has to decide whether the target is worth the $$$$$
Wat you said was rite, they'll try to tarik wif you for as long as possible but once you kill all competition, they're as good as your liao......cos, no one will wanna hang for her anymore once they see someone bombing her non stop

Just curious, since you mention Huang Chao, is there a singer there by the name of Yu Cheng雨辰?
Ex Mirage 神话

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wow, some people in this forum must be filthy rich.
$1k to hang flower and no sex, not even hanky panky?

unless you have tens of millions, i don't think this is wise thing to do.

i can understand the lust for really solid beautiful girls, especially if they have some other talent like singing or dancing, etc.
if i am filthy rich, i also want to bed these girls.

some brother here (is it do_u_bj?) got it right --- don't get emotional.
don't let your ego and vanity grow too big and think these girls will ever love you. this is strictly a business transaction, a MEAT market. we are all after their young nubile bodies and gentle dismeanor and they are after our money.


if u want really beautiful PRC girls, go to china!

in shanghai, u can get quite famous or once very famous very beautiful PRC actresses for $500,000 RMB per night ( that is, about S$120k ?).
yes, very beautiful once very famous PRC actresses.
i don't want to reveal names here. one of them acted in HK-China serials before and they were shown on S'pore TV.

i've been to hanging flower joints in xiamen. the singers and especially the lead dancers are really pretty. and the lead dancers can really dance - all graduates from some performance arts academy. well-trained. solid body, white skin, beautiful face. rates also quite expensive. i cannot remember clearly because that was 4 years ago. i think they also hang a few thousand RMB flowers.

i've also been to Tian Shang Ren Jian (Passion) in Beijing during its heydays.
For 2,000k RMB (that was 7 years ago), you can bed a very pretty girl - as pretty as all the singers you see here. Not really cheap considering they are not singers, but some PRC singers in S'pore can't really sing. Now i heard standard in Beijing KTV NC has dropped. There are more and more Chinaman millionaires and they have probably taken and kept all the really pretty PRC gals to themselves.

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u talking abt the one at middle road or the one at lavander??

I dont remember names.. I remember number..

68 is hot.. grad from dancing school in china..
wen wen cant survived went back a few weeks back..
wat else?? mind block.. cant think now.. lol..
which joint do u usually go? care to share?

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IMHO, one big problem with singers as friends is everytime want to go out in the evening/night (say go clubbing, dinner, movie etc) must 买场. It's damn irritating as from romancing throughout the day suddenly switch topic to $$$. Even if they like u, also they have to think of $$$ first as it's a matter of penalty for them. Add to that, the companies also have rehersals/ meetings in the afternoons/evenings which means the singers are not availiable.

When my singer friends sick and ask for help to see doctor, they also need to 买场. Add to that, MC often not recognised by company. Singers life is generally not as nice as it seems... Sigh!

Freelance KTV girls in general dun have this problem. If they like u, they happily take off and go anywhere with u.

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walao, u guys are really rich...

just curious where do u get so much money?
cannot be salaried men.
doing business?

actually if u r so rich, go china. the hanging flower singer/lead dancer gals there are prettier! but big cities in china are not cheap nowadays.

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wow all u guys must be very rich

where do u get all those money to hang on the singers?
cannot be salaried men..
doing business?

i can only read your postings and fantasize.

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Fully agree. HFJ singers do not have much freedom, unless they found very rich BF to support their leave, MC, always 买场 for them. A lot of KTV girls are students, they are still young and not working so hard, so very easy-going.

A lot of 同道中人 here. One of the post is right, HFJ is kind of addiction. It can be quite enjoy if you come to a good joints with good singers.

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Agreed, they basically tell each other to avoid bedding someone unless he can support you because once other customers learn, they won't hang for you anymore. Which is indeed broadly true. So most singers try to draw it out as long as possible, and at some of the bigger joints a few are able to hit their targets without ever getting a bf. And it's very true about the KTV girls being open to more affection b/c they are trained that way in the KTV. In HFJs most disdain public affection, again they are afraid word might spread that whoever holds their hand is their bf.

Yes, this is the biggest problem for me, as otherwise when I had gf singers I had to see them just before they go to work or after 3am, and I need to work in the morning! Of course, given how late their hours are, very hard to meet them in afternoon, which is often when I meet the KTV MMs for hotel liaisons. Singers' pressure is indeed very high, much more than the students

Never been to this Lavender place. So it's comparable to DC and Cleopatra in terms of ambience and # pretty singers?

Yet despite all the disadvantages of singers, I also struggle to resist. Lately I've been sticking to KTV MMs, but remain tempted by some singers and force my small head to listen to big head. When I meet a new, beautiful singer with good conversation, I always start thinking about whether this one is 'worth it'. But in the large places I know the answer is no

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has anyone try making love to a singer while she sings a full song in bed:)?

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Bro, agree with you. No point supporting singer at bigger joint, there are many rich people there who can afford to throw money. Why compete with those rich guys and you may not even get the singer in the end. We go there to enjoy not to create pressure for ourselve.

I try to avoid going to those big joints in case small head control over the big head especially when we see those pretty singers, may have the urge of getting them.

Bros who are in the HFJ must have gone through the process of supporting singers. Is not cheap but many still prefer singers than those ktv gals, why? because of egotism.

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good advice by bro cx7!
if you are a Championship-quality player, it is better that you play to your strength in the Championship and dominate it than to be thrashed again and again by the Premiership players.
you may perform the giant-killer act once in a blue moon like Barnsley beating Liverpool, but oso cannot progress very far.
i may not be into singers but still want to advise the ave HFJ chiongster to chiong wif care.
many singers are here under tremendous pressure (by family, debt, or employer) to earn money.
of cause many of them also got heart and feelings too though and you may have luck with them.
Big HFJs are for high earners, businessmen and "laundrymen".
so, don't try to compete with them with your blood-sweat money.
there are many smaller HFJs with many gems around if only you are willing to venture.
you may get "lucky" and score many sweet victories in smaller and less popular joints than the one-off victory in the bigger joints (supported by many people and big players) and suffer many humiliating defeats.
after all, many people or not is secondary but the accompany of the singers is primary, i think.
unless you are rich and want to be seem by many people that you can hang big, then do it at the big joints.
kut-lat (work hard) and good luck!

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I came across this singer, asking me to come and support her in her show,
I reject saying 2molo needs to work.

She told me so pressure and afraid
no customers - did not sleep for two days..

I asked her, health is importance or monies is importance, she said 面子问题
I really buay tahan...:p 服了她们。

Really sympathise her situation..:D

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lol....all singer are like that.....crazy lunatic.....:D the face value more impt than anything...

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thats why the 姐妹花 come into picture. why hang for yr fellow singer n let the boss earn money? cos of face lor. they know very well how he system works yet still wanna do it. some even ask their customer to hang for other gal, dun hang for her also nvm. cos 面子. so end of the day money is not everything la. do the right thing at the right time will bring you far far. needless to say, hanging few thousand flower is never the wrong thing to do anytime :D

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track back n found myself started going hfj only for like 1yr nia. the posting was made 7 april 08.

the singer that i noe in the a/m place came back to sg on her 3rd contact n we are still very good fren ;)