Originally Posted by Johndick (Post 18046376)

Lol,i know WHO too. And i bet she told you to not tell anyone correct? That she trust you only so only share with you? Right or not? Turns out she trust quite a few battlelions of bros out there:D

Another classic reminder to us all, when a ML tells you is for your ears only, it's because she wanna play us like a puppet ;)

Originally Posted by yqz7 (Post 18046437)

In that case it is best you stop. Stop this habit entirely. At least for an extended period of time. Force yourself away from it and all these girls for some time.
Go seriously date someone or pick up a new hobby or class or something.
Then you will realize the world is much bigger to be overly attached to anything or anyone.
It will still hurt here and there but you know you can live without it and the girls.

Originally Posted by alfredhuan (Post 18045524)

Aimee and Seventh Princess of the sglonelyguy. Real good massage!

Originally Posted by alfredhuan (Post 18046201)

Bro, I think I know who you mentioned. She told me the same thing about childcare business thingy, except she did not mention anything to me about the marriage thingy.

Yeah, don't take words from them too seriously. Later, get KC-ed then jialat...

Originally Posted by alfredhuan (Post 18046607)

But there are other sob stories, which she said she told me only.

Originally Posted by Eminemrocks (Post 18046183)

I think the fundamental attraction towards this MLs initially is that these ML are usually more attractive in the looks or figure department compared to local ladies, coupled with their "skills" really do make the initial dating process with them really fun and exciting. I think another trap that most bros fall into is that they realise at the beginning how different this ML is compared to other MLs you visited, the ML will tell you her stories that she had no choice but to step into this line, that she is not in this line for superficial reasons but to improve their standard of living etc, when confiding or stepping into the inner emotional circle of these ML, we will often commit a cognitive biases that we think this ML is special and so different from others. One of the common sentences I hear is that oh this ML" 没有心机的”。But we often forget something that in the vast China population, the amount of girls that decided to step into this trade are still the minority. For these girls to step into this trade, there is something within them there are already different from normal girls whom had not step into this line before. All in all, these girls come here with the clear purpose of earning money. And for brothers out there who are stuck in a complicated relationship with MLs I really do urge you guys, if you really do have the money, there are plenty of "better" girls out there and if you don't, don't ever step into their inner circle because what you get eventually will be just emotional hurt and pain. I had the honour of having a rather intimate relationship with one of the very famous ML recently and it has dawned upon me a lot of realisation I wouldn't had knew previously. If my time allows I would be glad to share my story in a subtle manner without revealing who the ML is in the future. To all bros out there, keep your rational mind in check and not let your emotions and little brother take over you. Cheers!

Originally Posted by iamzombie (Post 18046740)

The marriage thingy was probably because I somehow gave her a "positive" vibe to go further with it. Ended up she expected me to visit her every other day which I didn't and she got the hint.


Like the one about the pact with an ex?

Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei (Post 18046795)

Don't buy food for her, even worse is gifts.

Treat her as someone just to satisfy your carnal side for that 45-60mins and you should be fine.

Originally Posted by liangren122 (Post 18043507)

Poseidon ? i went there a few weeks ago.. was served by Yuri. she's really hot

Originally Posted by Johndick (Post 18046838)

Very timely advice..X'mas soon, don't foolishly think pressies will unlock 🔓 pussies , some MLs list their gifts from customers on their own Wechat "carousell" to cash converter into instant cash lol.

Use that $$ to buy yourself a nice gift better, or if you must, save it to reinvest it as your next visit expenditure..because the fact is unless your pocket ocean deep, no way you can outdo those highflyers or semi retired towkays who not only can book the ML daily and is a few hours kind, until they get bored and change to a new veg.. There are MLs i visited frequently before, every visit to her place i see new stuff piling up, some even buy table and chairs because the condo no proper dinning place and customer heartpain..

So if it even cross your mind to buy gift to score points in this holiday season, think AGAIN pls..

To each their own i know, but just a friendly reminder ;)

Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei (Post 18046850)

Now this is really going to sound fucked up but can really reduce your chances of being ensnared: dehumanise her and treat her as just a sex toy to satisfy your xiao didi for that 1 hour.

Originally Posted by alfredhuan (Post 18046830)

Yup, the ex. Not sure if they patched back.

She's a business women. Not wrong, but given the way she filled her slots, she's like a manufacturing line.