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Originally Posted by StealthBomber
(Post 22086060)
Or (4) simple, just be an ang moh. Don't need (1),(2) and (3) :D
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haha yes, I do agree! But if we can't be ang moh, we can focus instead on the things we can improve on ourselves.
5. Take reference from the younger guys bickering amongst themselves in this thread. Everyone's trying to one up each other. Differentiate. This is the exact type of drama younger girls face with boys , and they want to avoid it at all costs.
6. Just be an enhanced version of yourself. If you're old fashion, turn it into a benefit instead of a challenge. Don't chuck alcohol at her straight from the bottle. Bring her to your table, allocate a seat for her, as her which drink she'll like, give her a clean glass and fill it with ice, pour her a drink and ask her to tell you when to stop, ask if she'll like mixers, and most importantly, pick the glass up and hand it to her. It's little things like that which will outshine the rest of your younger competition, and while chivalry may be lost on them, it will look so damn good on an older person, like yourself.
7. If you haven't got any of these, or if you are remarkably ugly, then fix yourself. It will take time and you will get there. Remember , studies have shown that women don't account for faces well, only height , physique (shoulder width) and emotions with that person.
8. The whole clubbing scene is actually one giant fish tank filled with colourful zebra fishes. In an experiment, only the most unique zebra fish will get a mate, and when all the other female zebra fish notices, they will go for that one. Women are like that too, be that outstanding zebra fish, not with the youth that you lack, but with your maturity that supercedes everything else. Going back to maturity at point 5, if your conversation encroaches into a topic which she feels strongly about but you cannot help but disagree with, don't simply agree. Women hate pushovers. Stand your ground but don't bomb her with arguments and data, or flex your intelligence like the younger guys are doing, this is a huge turn off, simply smile and say something like "While you have your views which I respect, and I have have mine, which i stand behind, this makes the world a more colorful and vibrant place to live in , so let's just agree to disagree, shall we?"
And if you never got to bed anyone at the end of all your adventures. Just remember that it's better to do and to fail , than to never have and wonder when you're old, what could've been if only you tried!
