I feel like I'm being KC by a ML. Long story short - 2nd time visiting her today, finished the deed and she proceeded to massage me. We TCSS during the massage. During the TCSS I briefly remarked that her place is huge and if she's staying alone or with others, she say alone and stated that I can stay with her if I want. I then told her how is she going to fetch customers with me being here. She say I can spend the night here after she's done with her work. I assumed she's joking and told her if she wish there will be a long Q of guys waiting to fill this spot. She then say "as if, you also don't want to". I stayed quiet for awhile before telling her that she's good at cracking jokes to which she replied "You think I'm joking?". I changed topic afterwards. After awhile I tried to leave as I don't want to hold her up and my time is up soon. She refused to let me go and tell me to lie down and rest more while she continue massaging me and say that it's fine as her next customer is quite some time later. Shortly after she tried to get me to go for round 2. But I was too drained up from the first shot so I rejected. Overall my session exceeded by 20 mins when I left. 2 hrs later she messaged me "Are you home? Thanks for today! Miss you" with a fly kiss emoticon too.

Need advice from bros, not sure how to handle this situation. I would love to visit her again but purely as a customer. Nothing more.

Thanks in advance

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...are you first timer? for me that's just pattern ask for bao not so much for hardcore kc or anything

No. Been cheonging this scene for a few yrs. But first time meeting a ML that has given me such unusual treatment compared to the rest

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2nd visit only sio, haha

No harm sleeping over every now and then, especially if no money involved, unless of course you are married :p

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Exactly what im thinking. See how far you can go without paying. No harm trying.

To the ML, if they can find someone who can pay their rent, partially or totally, shower with presents and cash, then it is worth their effort. Else they might be aiming for that citizenship if they have a further goal.

No such thing as free lunch bro. You will have to pay one way or another. Keep it transactional and at best a couple of free fucks. It will come back to bite you one no matter how "lucky" you think you get.

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Lol, if u got no commitment, nothing to lose right? Willing giver willing taken. Just don’t end up gong gong become a carrot and feel that you are obligated to do over and beyond for the ML. 大家逢场作戏，不要太认真

2nd visit only so 热情 till 2 hour later send GFE message to you. Come on, you know the answers to your question isn't it?

OF COZ SHE IS TRYING TO KC YOU LAH.

And you definitely won't be the only one ;)

The fact that you are seeking opinions here is the clearest sign this is not a game you have any edge over her. RTM at your own risk, cos imo她吃定你了。

Btw there is a more appropriate thread in SBF for cases like yours, Matters of Heart or something la. FYI

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Ok la once in a while to help out a bro. Im sure all of us has tio GT in one form or another over the years.

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I could be wrong, but I get the sense that she really likes you.

The first question is whether she's just feeling lonely while she is here working or she intends to start a serious relationship with you. If it is the former, you can have an arrangement to be her boyfriend during her period of stay in Singapore, and both of you can enjoy the company of each other, and do the stuff that a couple does, till the end of her stay here.

However, if she's looking for a serious relationship, then you'll have to consider whether you like her too, and how much? Can you stomach the fact that she's servicing so many dicks every day, and being touched in so many ways by so many different men. There will be endless quarrels arising from this issue, I guarantee. Every time there's a MR on her, you'd be reading every vivid detail and feeling perplexed about them, especially when you read stuff like "zhut zhut till song song with no restrictions", "flowing like a tap below, and attained multiple orgasms". There's no way you can ignore them. You think you can, but eventually you probably can't, based on many previous cases I know of. It leaves you with two options:-

1. Break up with her
2. Give her sufficient amount of money for her to quit the trade on the assumption that she is willing to give up splashing on expensive bags, clothes and shoes.

And, if you're in for the long haul, you'll have to ask yourself whether you can stomach the thought that your GF/wife had serviced so many men before. This can be a source of constant quarrels as well.

If you're not prepared to accept the above, then tell her that you're not looking for a relationship, and you must mean it. If you can't bring yourself to tell her, then forget about visiting her as a customer because you're merely adding fuel to prolong the burning flame.

On the other hand, if you seriously think that you're willing to start a serious relationship after some serious thinking, the bit of encouragement I can share is that while most past cases did not end well, I do know 3 MLs who are happily married to customers they met here in Singapore.

The decision is yours alone to make.

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Can't prevent MLs with motives, but generally can somewhat reduce chances of it.

1) Portray yourself as just an average working class, don't earn too much kind.
2) Declare that you have GF/Wife
3) And be honest with yourself on your looks, lol

Don't mind me asking... Which ML is this? So we know if there are any other bros out there who received the same KC treatment

Lol why will anyone in his shoes wanna reveal... especially if someone else may wanna hijack ;)

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I think is her, sometimes they used two hp no.
Maybe blacklisted, try to used natalie name to mislead, she has nothin to lose:mad:

Point (1) DEFINITELY will weed out those fishing for carrots🥕

Point (2) only work on the lazier fishers. Some ML even after made clear that married n with KIDS, they tell you they don't mind be 小三

Point (3) actually doesn't matter. $$ is everything if they are just fishing 🎣