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对了, 压力太大, 就打一枪换个地方 lah. 一枪不爽, 多打几枪 lah. No big deal. Seems a bit wrong wording to use 枪, do not think too much.

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Go HF can claim under company entertainment expenses ok... but from own pocket feel stupid

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Lately this thread not much postings ya...

I guess many samsters already started to RETIRE liao.. no more Flower and Singers saga stories to tell..

No news is good new ya.. wahaha..:D

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sure bo, maybe they enjoy hanging quietly...:rolleyes:

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该退休的， 都退休了！
挂在嘴巴说要退休的，都静静的还在挂！
我不止退休，也推出江湖收手了！
江湖上的事非，都无我关系:d
好平静， 好轻松， 他妈的超级爽;)

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In response, let me enter a post then.... before i journey out.

看得开， 看得透, 人生短短数十年，何必呢。

I have been down to 国都 a few times, as always, i love that place, big enough, that you get privacy, cosy environment and k rooms, if you want to sing.
Did not spend any money in hanging flowers, so that was a success.

B i used to chase, was telling me her show was coming up and she was worried about lack of supporters etc.
She said, "XX哥， 你会帮我吗？“ My response was a finger raised pointing at myself.... and a wry smile.
A, wanted to open a bottle for me, but i rejected it, asking her to save her money instead, ”赚钱不容易". And we chatted about her current customers :).

Well right on the dot at 3am, the club shut down. Sticklers for regulations, even though it was packed full. Irritating.


... 练道心, i call it, no point avoiding, but to confront it heads on.

As part of the therapy i went down to 仙子 on Friday evening, it was a quiet evening. Nice selection of singers, only only recognized one singer, 小玉，the rest are all new. Gave tips to a couple of the waitress and left the joint.
It was a bad mistake though. This is the absolute last time, i will ever step into 仙子. I will be going down to 观音 temple later to burn some incense.
There was a memory lapse, i think on my part over the last 8 months.

This two weeks, i might be at three shows... maybe not, 0 to hang, just to validate a couple of things at my end.

Well, that was a rambling post... so hope that triggers some responses to this thread.

Cheers
0401

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At the end of the day, there's ni such thing as going back to a HFJ just to test yourself if you wanna hang anymore regardless of denominations.
What's your objective?
To test if you can resist hanging flowers when sitting before the stage?
Totally dun make any sense to me.
Just like, for example, a drug addict who used to get his highs from a drug den, then kicks the habit, but to test himself, goes back to the drug den every other nite to test if he'll consume drugs again????????
Totally no meaning bro.
Wanna quit, just walk away, dun worry, the only one who'll be missed is not you but you'll miss the action and nothing more!
So, wanna retire, just retire, like me:D

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bro Bj

Good for u for really retired,,,,,,,,

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I'm very sure you will BE BACK...:D

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Well, i do not know the exact reasons, but call it a farewell tour of the clubs/singers that caused me so much grief i suppose.
Its not a matter of hanging flowers, or the action anymore, already seen through that.

I want to burn the emotions, the images so deeply in my brain, that i will never never forget and come back to this life of HFJ again.

To recall, the exact moments of pain, the emotional triggers, that cause me to loose control repeatedly... and remember them for the next 30 years.

Recently a girl said to me.
你还是好好照顾自己先吧，不用管我嘛。。
A singer, who is apprised of my shitty finances...

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Wah so fast got people splash cold water at me liao
Back also not so soon, cos i'm actually happy and peaceful:eek:
Once you get too into the nite scene, you start getting involved in the local politics and all those bull shit that the nite scene is not short of....very sick and disgusted wif it!

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Million dollar statement that you should also understand too.
Its not joint related but HUMAN or GHOST in this case related bro.
So going back does not help you but seeking and facing your demon, in this case, the singers involved that you should be facing.
If closure is what u seek, and it sure looks like it, then seek the singer, not the joints.

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这么一说.. 跑江湖的人..都涌出来了.. 哈哈哈哈.....

插死她!插死她!插死她!:)

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Hi Bro, it is the singers... i just used the joint== singers interchangeably.
It is the closure with the singers, that i am trying to obtain, those that have "hurt" me and those that i have hurt.
Then to move on, this last two weeks should settle it.

Thanks all.
0401

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OMG，what are you going to do with those singers? :eek:

兄弟，算了吧，过去的就让它过去吧！