How to hold my cum?
 

guys i had sex with my flings and i always wanted to cum so fast.. and so i start to pump slowly and wait till it doesnt want to cum and i go again.. how can i improve it actually and pump fast speed without cuming.

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1. Keep switching positions, don't stay at one position for too long, if you feel like cumming stop and then switch. Alternatively, go back to fore play.
2. Keep your mind distracted with other thoughts.
3. If all else fails, use Durex Performa. Guarantee you will fuck till your dick feels sore.

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Bro go buy prolong Spray.. I'm using tat my 1st shoot can last 30-45 min if I use tat.. My gf like it very much cos can last longer

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1] Drink 1 or 2 can of beer
2] Use Stamina Spray
3] Use Durex Performa

Do not take pills. Is risky and dangerous.

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where to get the spray? thanks

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Fire your first load during foreplay or during bbbj. Then continue.
It ain't fair to us when girls can cum so many times right?

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I hv a feeling tt Bro hsbc will be here soon to recommend Gambir. Kekeke... :D

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cum like 1-3 hours before session. That way, you get your second wind for the initial session and you wouldn't come so fast.

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i have the same issue with you ts too. whenever i did with fl, or fb, i always come fast, or either after coming, i dont feel like doing second anymore.
with my gf, sometimes i cant even stand, and when we do it, sometimes i dont even come. its very frustrating actually.

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Durex Performa didnt work for me...may be because we did it outdoor...too excited to hold my cum as I want to quickly finish and wear our clothes.

some girls know how to squeeze their pussy and know how to rock their body...this type also make me cum in no time because I have little control.

may be u can try PCC two time before bonking, but no fun leh

If not in a hurry and have the energy and time...then make the first shot fast, after that rest and go for 2nd or 3rd shots....the latter definitely last longer

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1) drink beer
2) keep changing positions
3) use position(s) that make you least sensitive.
4) cut down/skip foreplays
5) PCC regularly, or few hours before u enter for sex.

Overall, you should know your body better than us, so try to discover what works for yourself. For me, the above 5 factors work well for me.

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It's all in the mind. Think of something unpleasant or some math problem....juz do not think of u making love.:D

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You have to learn to know your body, i.e. stage of arousal.
Usually, you cum faster if you go fast and can last longer if you go slow.
The trick is to go slower when you realize you're getting close but of course you need to learn to recognize before you're too close.
Then go slower for a while and you can pick up again. This can be repeated as long as you like. After some training and getting used to it, you will be one to decide when you want to cum..
As mentioned by some others, there are positions that will make you cum faster than others.
Good positions are those where you need to work with more than just your hips (e.g. standing up). If all the blood is in your hips, it's too close to where the action is. Sometimes position where you're thrusting deep inside her can help. You can still pump her but not feel a lot of friction at your tip where you're most sensitive area is.

Do a simple comparison in missionary thrusting 1-2 inches deep over the full length. How does it feel?

Or try the cowgirl in 2 variations. Let her do the work so that you can concentrate on your feelings. If she is used to you coming too fast, she will appreciate your effort to do something and will work with you.
When riding, let her move forward and backward instead of up and down. With that, she will stimulate her clit and be able to reach an orgasm faster while you will be relaxed, enjoying the sight and movements and will be able to last a long time. Then let her move her butt up and down. I bet you will notice a huge difference in your level of arousal and probably cum very fast with that movement if she does it right.

Another one is to 'educate' your body through masturbation though that is of course much less fun than doing it with your partner.

And if you find the 'spot of the million gold coins', you can cum without ejaculating - and go much quicker to the next round but still need a short break. This can be achieved through training the PC muscle or simply by pressing one or two fingers on it..
Catch is, if you do it too often without ejaculating, you may find it difficult to ejaculate. So you should still cum on and off. And it is less pleasurable than being able to last as long as you want - and your partner can handle it without getting sore..
Have fun!

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Changing of position helps alot. =)

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2] Use Stamina Spray
3] Use Durex Performa

Bro where can i buy those above items??

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I agree with Bro Frankiestine, change position and go back to foreplay. I have never tried any spray or using any long lasting CD because with my FB is always raw. She likes it and I like it too. The best is when I am about to cum go back to foreplay which I find it most effective. My sexual sessions with my FB is usually an hour and I have no worries about AV because we do it at her place. I dont have mutiple release. Just once but that is enough for her and she could cum at least 4 to 6 times because she is very highly sex. Of course there are times, I cannot tahang and release upon her 1st or second cum and she will make noise but what to do.
However with FL is different. Capped is a must and I just want to release pay and get out of the hotel as reasons you know.....AV. So I dont want to prolong any fun with FL.
Maybe I should try writting some of my sessions with my FB.

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Bro go excercise.. if you are fit chances are you will also last longer;)

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I would like to add on top of what bro Jitlong69 has recommended. I will try to satisfy the ladies first. Make them come first (4 or 6 times whatever) and when they are done or satisfied I will than have my satisfaction. Usually the ladies would be very appreciative of you doing that and will be even more hardworking in getting you satisfied later. Just my 2 cents.

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Sigh... Maybe I should try what other bros suggestion in using Durex Performa or the Spray thingy... I have same problem with TS... PCC in advance or cut down in foreplay certainly don't work for me... Even I shoot earlier on, the 2nd round, 3rd round and even 4th round, sometimes will be very fast too... (As fast as 5mins...)

So far for now I'm on Revival pills to prolong performance...

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For me 3 things works.

1. Exercise - since i started working out in GYM and also doing 2.4km runs on tread mills, it actually helps me to prolong my power. Even if i cum once in a session, my dick is still rock solid erect and second round is always where i last long and can fully satisfy the lady hahaha.

2. Mental aspect - Think of my office's Janitor lady, sure will take long time to cum. hahahaha :D

3. If feeling of climax is coming, i will pull out and use two fingers to squeeze the dick head for a few seconds. That will stop the feeling of climaxing and than i can put it in to continue pumping her. But be warned dont squeeze too hard or too long or dick becomes too soft to put back into pussy hahaha. Practice makes perfect.

Just my 2 cents.

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bro, can share where to get the spray thingy?

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true, hitting the gym is a great way and i've found a list of things to counter premature ejaculation:

http://gambirorganics.blogspot.com/p...s-cure-pe.html

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If its per your Title: How to hold my cum?

I would suggest that when you cum, put your hands out and catch it.
This way, you will HOLD YOUR CUM...

:D

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great tips bro!
thanks!

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TS.. u tie a rubber band..
confirmed plus chop it helps!
MUHAHAHAAHAHAHA!!

OK, on a serious note, change positions? think of anything but fucking.. distract urself.. and seriously practise makes perfect.. << that is if u r fucking them raw..

if using condom, use performa.. u fuck 24hrs non stop also wont cum..
:P

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wtf!!! Lol!!!!

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Just curious, if cd is provided, are we allowed to bring our own??

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Bro,

Just sharing!
Go to gym!
Make ur abs stronger!
The more stronger abs u have the more u can control ur cumming!
Coz the tube that carry ur cum has to pass through the channel between ur oblique m/s of ur abs beforeit reach to ur pe**s.
So the stronger ur m/s is, the more u can squeeze ur m/s to block the passage so, u may feel ejaculated with orgasm but u will not shoot out ur cum and ur little bro will not go to sleep!
That's what they call male multiple orgasm!
even if ur abs are not that strong enough, u will definitely feel that u have more control! Believe me! Try and if not working, kick me out from this forum!

I'm that much confident!
Good luck bro TS!

Re: How to hold my cum?
 

Tried Performa condom before, but ended up in embrassement as it actually numb my dick till it refuse to stay hard.

So paiseh. :o

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bro, can pm me where to buy this spray. i ahve this problem for long time