Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

i agree with this one

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

i shall be bold

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

Worst idea ever.

HAHAHA... Sorry sorry.. I forgot to continue posting cos that time too busy with her.

Yeah, she should have been just colleague, but the texts came in FAST, and even during office hours, after office hours and even to late nights..

I still tried to keep a distance, it's colleague after all. The plan was to go out the next month..

However, we went out just 2 weeks later again.
Then the next week.
Then twice a week
Then 3 times a week

It was lots of fun.. Drinking, cafe, ktv, dinners
But we never had physical contact. Im still cautious byt always want to.
It's always just natural to other girls, I could just "take action"

Probably because This is colleague, I always kept my distance.. After awhile it's very hard.

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

probably true. being a colleague harder to take action, and your have been keeping your distance for some time. so to suddenly take action abit wierd.

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

All you paid? Beware of being taken for a ride.

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

do it slowly, increase the frequency and amount of contact slowly

start with light taps on shoulders, accidental hand contact etc see her reaction. if reaction she dont move away, you try staying very close to her for long periods of time.

No, if she knows the price, she would transfer me half of the dinner amount. But that's for the start. Now seem like she less bother haha..

Ya that's what I did.
It's wrong. I think she this type need to 'attack' at the right time.

She will struggle, but doesn't get angry. Probably she's loving it.. Once we're holding hands, I'm free to hold it anytime liao.

Then comes pecking.. It's odd and she pushes me away. After awhile.. she's submitting already.

Tried frenching afew times, at the car when I send her home. She pushed me away and asked me never to do it again.

1 day, we are at the riverside. And we kissed..IT WAS THE BEST FRENCH I EVER HAD!!!

From then, it's all ok to french..

I'm still struggling to eat the full course tho.. We checked in hotel.. Only managed to eat 1 buns. Aww man.. it's less than A kup.

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

continue advance like this lor maybe testing how long you can tahan

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

u fall into the good guy problem liao. at first still ok.. female nature they see the guy willing ah, they will eat more and more.. soon u will be paying for everything

now got nothing in between u two yet. stand your ground dont pay everything
infact this might even make her want you more when she can "control" you less u become more attractive

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

Ok ok.. I know what she's up to. I read about this.

Girls like to 'hook up' with guys. Then later slowly takes away the privileges of physical contact, then slowly become silent treatment.

Meanwhile, she will be hooking another guy. It's happening now, That's fine for me.. I tell her that's ok. It's going to be her or someone else, doesn't matter.

Bro Khairulmohd is right. Continue to 'chase' them in anyway makes the guy less attractive. Things like paying for meals and stuff.

Same, for guys if wan to play, just be as attractive and perfect at the start. Later just find flaws with her. Don't ask for anything, don't advance anything physical until she does

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Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

I am more interested in how TS is going to escape the good guy syndrome and have the full course soon.

Seems difficult. :rolleyes:

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

Ya. Now cfm can't get the full course. Anyway.. I think that's the end. HAHAHA..
Till we get another target...
We still messaging tho, just keep it 'loosely connected'.

Re: Is she really just a friend or more?
 

can also. you never know when you become the shoulder to cry on, and the dick to ride on. lol