The Asian Commercial Sex Scene

Most Humans are not able to accept truth & realities, as they are often painful to realize, would rather live in delusions & fantasies but such are not REAL.

Nightlife operators & ladies earn their money by creating fantasies in one's mind, & must never be taken as real. No money equals no honey. More money only equals service & NOT true love, as she too, would have requirements of her own for true love after the night's work & service of mere transactions. What one feels, is only for the night, & should be taken as a morale booster, to build up one's confidence in making friends, to face the new dawning day challenges ahead.

Should one believe the nite is real, then Eventually, realities will ultimately hit, & the blinkers will drop from one's eyes, & can be very painful, & may even result in extreme measures to alleviate one's emotional pain.

And I can feel Thread Starter's pain. No Human is perfect, & all have flaws. What he had gone thru - reality realization - is what most Humans, & especially sheltered Singaporeans had gone thru before once or many times in their life.

Most new TS would post & then probably disappear, but it is OK. Let it out, as writing out one's woes will help, & may even help others in similar predicament. It is an important 1st step in recovery of mental health, to break from the chains of self imprisonment due to one's flaw which all Humans would have in different circumstances of NEEDS. It is a form of therapy - to let out the pain.

But most IMPORTANTLY, I hope TS & any other fellow Humans whom had suffered, to NEVER let such reality realizations hurt, hurt or hinder their own potential in life.

It is said - it is NOT how many punches that a Human can take that makes him a strong & respected individual to love ones & others. It is the ABILITY to STAND UP after each or few punches that achieves such.

May TS be able to overcome the pain of realization, stand back up, & seek for the love & companionship in the journey of life he desires. No Human is perfect or life is a bed of roses daily. It takes two to clap.

Only by honest opened communication can differences be resolved, regardless if one is rich or poor, presumably handsome or ugly, an elite or an ex convict, or whatever else that limits our presumed flaws. Each Human DO have the ability to change, for the good with the power of true love, more so after suffering painful truths of life.

No Human needs to be alone. May TS know he is not alone, & have COURAGE to stand back up, like what the rest of us Singaporeans had done, as we all have our founding & forefathers genes/mentality - that created this unique nation from a piece of abandoned land we call our home, & built it to what it is today - respected & honored by most if not all Humans in our World, for our resilience, determination, sacrifices, pragmatism & more against ALL odds...

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