Seeking advise from the experienced
 

Hi all brothers,

i have been going for FLs for quite sometime now like years and recently i realized that, i wanted to have a gf, either local or foreign but as i went for FLs too often, i do not know how to actually pick up girls that i like. FLs are quite str8 forward when talking but its totally different when trying to chase a girl. Can any experience big bros here teach me how to pick up the skills of chasing girls either public, friends or clubbing? Also becos of my looks, very average and skinny, i totally have lost all the confidence.

Hope bros can help me out teaching me. Thanks a million!

Re: Seeking advise from the experienced
 

Should be "Seeking ADVICE from the experienced.".

"Advise" is a verb.

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sorry bro, for my poor english :(

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Bro ......

sign up SDN here

http://www.lovebyte.org.sg/web/ent_p_home.asp

:D

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haha bro thanks for the link but i need to learn tactics, i afraid even matchmake the girl might find me dull or something :(

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Ha... show them your sincerity instead of your wallet ... haha :D

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haha i know.. but it's just i started dont know how to talk or pick up girls with sweet words anymore :( Hope bros here can teach me alil thing or two.

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folo the advice of bro above...sincerity....

sweet talk.. go google sweet talk
i use to get yahoo "sweet"sms
but i tin speak from the heart one mo true feeling lo...

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This... happened to me before ... after much of FL. Me realise normal chic avoiding me or simply take me for a ride - some not even treating as a simple friend :rolleyes: Me then found out it is the way we carry ourseleves

I guess you hav to change your mindset first ....

• Befriend with them should be the first thing in your mind while talking to them, not sex

• Talk to any of them regardless how they look or whether they are up-able, the gal that you r interested in, will be looking

• Do not give them the impression that you are those type that goes FL

• Never tried to impress them with your $$$ power --- cannot never make them feel that you wanted something in return after buying them drinks or dinner

Finally & importantly kick away those habits or talking style while you r "FL-ing"


GOOD LUCK

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HELLO BROTHER..... what skills you talking... give you an HONEST and REAL opinion. ITS ALL ABOUT MONEY. Normal girls, KTV, WL, all want to smell money. NO MONEY NO HONEY.

If I am in your shoes, I will just get a vietnamese wife from one of these company that provide the service. Young, juicy, virgin, tenderfresh.... get a very young one like 19 years old. Believe me... just hugging will give you the orgasm... once your cock goes in, you will know what is a newly blossom cunt... its one word "wonderful heaven". Where to find in SG? Some more worry about skill... ha ha.. heck care la...

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if you let female frens know or suspected u visited pros, they won't let you fark them already :D

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No matter how many million times, it is still written wrongly. Can anyone "advice" us..:)

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1.) If you are overweight and unhappy about it then start exercising. Go to a gym, lift weights, run, swim, anything that will get you fit.

2.) If you are lack of confidence, then start talking to as many persons as you can. Even if they’re total strangers, you can practice your conversation skills with them. Maybe it will be hard, but all it requires is a little courage. You’ll see that in no time you will loose the fear.

You have to be satisfied with yourself. If you aren’t, then work hard to become the person you desire. How can you expect others to respect you if you don’t respect yourself? How can you expect others to like you if you don’t like yourself?

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This is an interesting topic and I will chip in.

The problem here is that you are using money to compensate for your lack of a personality. Girls will love you for your money... But then what? They'll end up being bored and seek pleasure from other men while leeching onto you for your money. This isn't being devious - it's about making good use of an opportunity, or having your cake and eating it.

Here are some tips to make yourself more attractive:

- Build up your body: being lean has its advantages.
- Be well-groomed: most men severely underestimate the impact of grooming and fashion
- Develop your own interests - what do you like to do? Share them with your female companions.
- Belief: If you don't believe in yourself, you can't attract women.