Will she accept me for who i am?
 

I'm kinda troubled.
ive been with the girl i love for a lil more than a yr now.
we are happy together and she recently realized that im v horny.
from the first time i knew about sammyboy forums i only read the stories and enjoyed the pics and some vids.
But she doesnt really know about my 'secret'.
I have considered hiring an escort before or even going for a sleazy massage but till this day, i havent had the balls to do so.
even though Ive read about fucking maids and all and people having affairs, i never did that before.
She hates the idea which i brought up of a 3some and wants me to her only.
will she still love me if she found out that i visit such sites and that i wank a lot to porn?

any other brother or sister in my position?

hope to hear from you all.

thank you.

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

i think its normal for guys to visit such sites and jerk off to porn - she should be able to accept this.

but i think a threesome is too much and that has crossed the line

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

Cover your tracks. Yes, I have the same fantasies as you. But I have done some. I wouldn't say it is worth doing. Better off going to pubs and picking up someone there. When in need, always trust your right hand.

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

till this day, i wank instead up upping girls.
dun want a FB coz will create troubles which can be unnecessary

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

Dark side
There's a place that I know
It's not pretty there and few have ever gone
If I show it to you now
Will it make you run away

Or will you stay
Even if it hurts
Even if I try to push you out
Will you return?
And remind me who I really am
Please remind me who I really am

Everybody's got a dark side
Do you love me?
Can you love mine?
Nobody's a picture perfect
But we're worth it
You know that we're worth it
Will you love me?
Even with my dark side?

Like a diamond
From black dust
It's hard to know
It can become
A few give up
So don't give up on me
Please remind me who I really am

Everybody's got a dark side
Do you love me?
Can you love mine?
Nobody's a picture perfect
But we're worth it
You know that we're worth it
Will you love me?
Even with my dark side?

Don't run away
Don't run away
Just tell me that you will stay
Promise me you will stay
Don't run away
Don't run away
Just promise me you will stay
Promise me you will stay

Will you love me? ohh
Everybody's got a dark side
Do you love me?
Can you love mine?
Nobody's a picture perfect
But we're worth it
You know that we're worth it
Will you love me?
Even with my dark side?


Unless she is in the 'industry' she won't understand.

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

bro is that a song? hmmm

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

I dun c y she will ever leave you bcoz you visit porn sites. btw...girls dig themselves too...

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

Most gals r conservative, dunn think u understand your gal well enuf, why would u suggest 3some :confused: not everyone can accept it. Think u could have disappointed her a lot........

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

It's normal for guys to have such fetish, and it's also perfectly normal for an asian girl to reject your idea of threesome and want to be your only one.

Watching porn is normal for guys. But for some conservative type, they can't accept. So, either you LL suck thumb, watch secretly or move on with another girl. Every guys possess the temptation to fuck a more attractive girl, such as an escort or ONS or whatever.

Don't worry both of you are normal :)

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

Been with her for 1 year plus. You should know her well more then people over here. By asking us will she forgive you or not...it's kind of a known answer by you and yourself.

Girls (maybe not all but mostly) will want their partner to come clean. Although they may throw temper here and there but in their heart, they still love you. I guess you should know, girls are sentimental animal (ops) as long as you amend your way, they will accept in the end (which also mean, your wrong doing will be always remembered)

Just sit down and think....weight it yourself you should know the answer :D

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

TS,

I think you should try and take time to understand yourself more and understand what you want in a relationship. With your question, I do not think you currently know what love is at all, so my answer to you would be to make your mistakes in relationships and not tie yourself down now.

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

I also watch a lot of porn before I got attached to my gf. I only admitted to watching it on a weekly basis (conservatively).

I always wanted to have a threesome too but never suggested. She did suggest her interest in a threesome MMF and FFM without penetration, just oral and no sex with that extra F/M but she prefers to have me all to herself. (Selfish I know.)

When I asked further, she mentioned one of her fantasies is to have a threesome with penetration. But will it happen? Who knows? May happen, may not. She does not want that to affect the relationship. =P

For my case, I merely just encourage. I don't tell her that I visit SBF or any porn sites nor tell her my fantasies. I just give subtle hints =P

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

I think its normal for guy but then there are no much girl willing 3 some.

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

Well, TS there no wrong for joining forum when you are attached what, doesn't mean by joining forum and read the stories, look at the picture, the video Etc .. and ur gf will break with you, don't find the reason as you have honestly tell her you are at forum.

But by asking her to go for 3some with you, is super sound wrong. (you all still can go for 3some if the both of you are comfortable with it and into it else drop the ideal). Every woman and man will have their fantasy, so ask yourself what your, and your girlfriend one, fantasy can lead to a hot wild 3some, swinging, bdsm etc..

Don't wanna break with gf then don't do thing like wanna bonk FL, rather you wank or bonk your girl girl. :)

So all the best to you okay, GOOD LUCK!

Re: Will she accept me for who i am?
 

techically wanking to porn isn't exactly cheating.