How to 释怀?
Just ended an affair of 1 year, very hard to let go. We both know there won't be any outcome in this, but we still proceed and now both of us suffer due to the changes in the relationship and back to strangers. She doesn't want to stay friends, its either together or stranger; 是不是真心爱过就不能做朋友?
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Re: How to 释怀?
We can't always get the closure we want.
Better to have it for a moment than not to ever have it at all. Give things time to settle down and don't push or expect anything. We all need some space and time for ourselves. |
Re: How to 释怀?
Just feel like its very hard to let go. Alot of things and places and songs reminds me of her, and now we are like strangers, she just want me out of her life. Haven't been myself at all, haven't been real happy :(
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U will be fine bro .... Time will heal :)
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Till date, almost 3 years, I still can't get over her and I realised, time won't heal. But time will teach u to live with the pain. |
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Yeah it sucks bad.
But I have learnt better than to force the issue of why. |
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Just let go...time will make everything pass...
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Trying to focus more on my family, its still tough. Keep wanting to reach out but yet don't want to make her upset.
@Max9 bro, how is it for you? |
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Find a hobby. Spend more time connecting with your kids.
No right or wrong. Over is bo bian. Will be a memory. We will always wish the best for the ones we love but cannot be together. |
Re: How to 释怀?
Solution is easy. Two words. 新欢.
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never wanted to have another affair anymore, my heart just couldn't take it. tried to reach out but got treated with harsh words
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Sadly, I know there is no outcome to this relationship. Divorce is too expensive and tedious in Singapore. |
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Generally speaking yes, and to be honest I don't want to stay friend with my ex, cuz it will slow me down to get rid of this broken relationship. Time will heal, just try to hang out with someone.
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