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Originally Posted by deathnitez
To think of it I feel is like us playing with girl and this girls we play with also gonna play with customer feelings indirectly..................
After all I still feel that feeling is just a word.... when you have that many girls which you have been with, love is not really necesary..... Making 3 girls cry in a week trust me is a total hell....................-
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Dear bro deathnitez,
Tks for sharing ur experience.
Making 3 girls cry in a wk is good... if their cry is genuine. Girls enjoy strong emotions n what don't kill them will make them stronger haha.
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Originally Posted by tirak69
My 2 cents worth. I do find TD or HFJ ca be mentally draining at times. There are many fisherman trying to catch the same fish. You have to devise tactics to win her over and keep competition at bay.........................
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Dear bro tirak69,
Anything that is mentally draining is not healthy. Do something that is relaxing n fun...
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Originally Posted by fallen.angel
This is stuff of legends and the reason why you are my idol - despite haven't had the chance and privilege to meet you in person!!
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Dear bro FA,
He is a living legend in the HF circle.
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Originally Posted by aczeta76
Bro DYBJ, u r back in action huh.
Good to read about all of u n wb after my long hiatus from sbf...
Been kept busy till now.
All of u all so much intel in HFJ... Aiyoh, how can solo cheongster like me survive
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Dear bro aczeta,
Mr Chairman is the master n mentor who has extensive connections n intel...
I'm just a trainee or mentee.
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
Can dun worry, solo is stealthy = more deadly 
I retired lah bro & I quote |
Dear Mr Chairman,
I feel honored that you still take my calls in ur 'retirement.' You're the man I consult when I need info on a singer haha.
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Originally Posted by crood
How to really love when her occupation is to fake GFE, facing endless guys everyday??
and how u can love when u have the moolah to change a new gal everyday?? .........................................
When there is a game, there will always be a winner and a loser. U heard of crocodile tears?? This could be just because take so much effort to sharpen the knife yet carrot run off or hasn't chop enough yet. Don't tell me u believe they love u genuinely??!! U have more gals than u can handle but for them, there are endless supply of Roberts flocking to them everyday.
Count yourself is they cry and not you cry! By that time if pocket empty also "kao bo bak sai" ..... nothing to really boast about on the women u can use $$ to bed, the real prize is those have $$ also cant bed.......
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Dear bro crood,
Tks for ur post.
I couldn't agree with u more. Where is the challenge?
Luckily, there r still a few women out there who want more than money before they spread their legs...
BTW, bedding a desirable woman should only be the 1st step. The mission is to get them sexually addicted to YOU n only YOU.
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Greetings from Gotham City!
I was thinking abt why some men would pay big buck to ST or BY very ordinary women. I don't need to cite examples, we hv all seen them.
Yesterday I received an e-mail from a guru on seduction, the danger of getting too attached to any one woman n why men should never chase women...which struck a chord with me.
Hi Bro Warbird,
................................I was reminded of one of the most important lessons of both sales and seduction then: don't over-invest in any one prospect, and don't get too attached.
The rookie's folly, of course, is that he allows himself to get too attached to one prospect.
One prospect who is guaranteed to give him precisely nothing.
Rookie salesmen and seducers alike are flying blind through inexperience, and struggling with desperation and an utter lack of abundance mentality. Thus, when they strike upon a customer or a girl who shows even a smidgen of interest, they very often do their best to latch their claws on, and pull out all the stops to try to close the sale.
And there begins the process of investing too much in a girl, and getting too attached to a girl.
Though there are a few exceptions, by and large attachment is formed in direct proportion to the amount of emotional "pursuit" energy you put into a thing.
The more you allow something to affect you emotionally as you pursue it, the more attached to it you will become.
That's why I tell men don't chase women. When you're chasing women, not only are you causing them to flee (you can't give chase if she isn't running first), but you're also getting yourself tied up in emotional knots... that are going to bind you to her.
Except, it's not a two-way bind.
You don't bind her to you by getting emotionally attached to her yourself. To the contrary... the more emotionally attached to a girl you become, generally, the less attached (and interested) she'll be in you.
The more time you spend emotionally pursuing something or someone - and any time you even vaguely "want" something, it's emotional, at least to some degree - the more power you give that something or someone over you.
And what happens when someone has power over you?
She realizes it................................................ .......
I can look at how a girl's interacting with me and tell you almost instantly if she's wasting my time (that is, trying to slot me into a role in her life I'm not interested in occupying) or not. When you're new, you do not have this ability. I certainly didn't always have it.
In fact, I'd say it probably took me a few years of dating lots of different women before I was able to get a fairly reliable read on when my time was being wasted and when any difficulties I was seeing were just the vagaries of life and the girl herself was still interested and committed to moving things ahead.
So there is some amount of paying your dues to get there.
Every rookie salesman wastes time with customers who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into giving them the deal of a lifetime - and one he ends up regretting having given them later.
Likewise, every rookie ladies' man wastes time with women who lead him on and lead him on and never pan out, or wear him down into accepting a "just friends" role with them, or quietly waiting in the background for her to finish up with her string of all-wrong bad boy hookups and realize that, really, he was the one she wanted all along, she just hadn't seen it (cue romantic music).
These experiences get coded into your memory as "lessons", and you need them there to stand as examples of what not to do, and where you don't want to end up going again in the future.
So don't think you're going to have a few hookups or a girlfriend or two under your belt and be immune to this. It takes time, experience, and getting burned at least a handful of times first before your radar really starts going up and getting attuned to the proper signals.....................................
Those caveats aside, let's talk about the one rule to follow to ensure you don't end up getting too attached to a girl:
As the time it takes to bed her INCREASES, the effort you put into doing so must DECREASE.
Most men take the opposite tack.
For most guys, as the time they put into a girl goes up, the effort into her remains constant, or goes up too.
And that's how chasing happens. An escalating or never-decreasing level of investment as a woman stretches things out and strings the man along.
Likewise in sales - a customer stretches things out longer and longer, piling on more and more demands, and rookie salesmen continue investing the same levels of effort, or more.
My advice - both to greenhorn sellers, and to new-to-the-game seducers - is to reduce your effort in direct proportion to the amount of time that's gone by and investment that's been asked of you.
Getting too attached to a girl before she's yours leads to:
You chasing hard (and her running away)
You becoming tentative and awkward; her meaning more and more to you
You becoming an emotional mess, subject to the whims of her availability
You passing up loads of opportunities with other, more interested women
That last one's the real kicker. All the time you spend chasing a woman with an ever-decreasing probability of ending up with you (the longer the courtship, the less likely it is to ever be consummated) could have been spent on women with a much higher probability of ending up yours - including women prettier, smarter, more fun, and more amazing than the girl you've currently fallen into the attachment trap with.
In sales, you miss out on more and better sales by wasting time on finicky customers who probably aren't going your way anyway, or are going to give you something that's not really worth the time and effort you put into it if you soldier on through and finally get it.
The same is so in seduction - sacrifice your time and energy for a girl you've messed up on or who is not very interested, and you will end up paying $500 for a $10 item.
Don't let yourself get too attached. Be cognizant of when you're spinning your wheels, and decrease effort as time increases.
Then instead of wasting time, you'll save it - and save yourself from the draining emotions of chasing after women who aren't interested (or have lost interest), too....................................
Best,
Your Guru
"You will end up paying $500 for a $10 item." Hahaha, that is how many men hv ended up paying much more than what some women are really worth.
IMHO, never ever get too attached to any one woman, regardless of your RS w/ her n whether you've known her for 3 minutes or 30 yrs, hahaha.
Have a great day!!
Bro WB