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Originally Posted by Singkieu
The point of keeping a CPF tally should be similar for anyone - is the subject worth the effort or not?
I agree on your point about how one should keep 'regular' girlfriends and whores separate because of the distinction between love and paid sex. That's why the CPF is powerful because it transcends this distinction - you can use/apply the CPF in both cases - love and paid sex.
Last point of clarification - when you said you maintain your girlfriends on less than VND2M a month, so basically it means you have 2 girlfriends that you see fives times a month each = 2 x 5 x CPF of VND200k = VND 2M?
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no that figure is MAXIMUMS i generally get a new gf every 3 months so 4 a year, been here about 5 yrs so close to 15-20 gfs, I HAVE NEVER given these gf EVER more than 3mill a month sporadically, ie some months i help them other months they dont ask i dont give in fact most girls dont ask.
Thats the first point, ie i dont give a monthly allowance like what other guys do.
Secondly my dates on avgerage cost 200k a date sometimes more sometimes less eg today i too my gf to chao goi vit..cost 90k then i went back to my house for a bonk. Othertimes i took her to seafood, cost 1mill. But on average a date will cost me 200k, and afterwards we often have sex, sometimes i cum othertimes i like just pleasing her or to feel myself inside her but not wanting to exerte myself till i cum. So without going through the hassle of using a calculator, i can say my cpf is generally about 200k.
With new girls again, my SOP is 1 date coffee, 100k, second date dinner 200k, third date dinner or movie etc 200-300k, then i bonk...so tally that is 600k/2 so again my cpf is 300k or their abouts. This is a general off the cuff calculations.
Generally my comments are made as a average, ie MOSTLY i dont give money, and when i do its justified, for example my gf needed to borrow 2 mill as she wanted to but a 7.5 mill bike, as she had to return her sisters, and as she worked as a PR she needed to travel during work etc. I gave her 2.5 mill as a once off.
And i suppose because i gave her this 2.5 mill, i am less likely to take her to the movies or things she likes, but in terms of dinner I always take girls to places i like, when i end up at touristy places its mostly because i was misled..see my nuoc suong marina comment.
I dont run gfs in parallel, i run them in series and i see my gf 3-4 times a week with bonks prob 8-12 times a month.
There have been obviously bad situations but i can generally feel that out when i talking to her before i meet for coffee, or whilst im having coffee. The last "bad" experience was 1.x mill dinner at nuoc suong marina..after that i didnt contact her again
another point of clarification regards the cpf for ME is this. The costs included in MY cpf may be different from yours.
Eg when i take them to dinner i only calculate 1/2 the cost as i would have to eat myself, however if i was pressured to taking to a restaurant i wouldnt otherwise go myself then i would calculate the WHOLE cost as in my mind that was of very little benefit to me, likewise iof i went to KTV or disco, the ENTIRE cost of the night would be calculated into the cpf as i get nothing from standing around getting drunk listening to bad loud music..surrounded by social misfits who have to pay for girls company and attention. I draw the line at paying for sex, but i refuse to pay for a girls attention and her non sexual company.