Thanks Bro Warbird for raising the questions. I'll gladly answer them for you, and for the rest of the bros. Actually more for others to read since we always discuss everything privately ~ there's nothing you don't know about me LOL! But before I answer the questions, I need to point out, or remind you of, one fundamental difference between us. You go for long term relationships; I shun them. The reason is very simple ~ while it's against my principle to compare, I'm only 1% of your net worth. Actually, I may have over estimated myself as I'm a very positive person so for a person who tries to make ends meet, I simply can't afford to BY any gals. My tight schedule, work and family commitment also prohibits me to do so. I'm also scared of over zealous n jealous gals.
First question - it was me who had asked my friend (you know who) to go to a HFJ to pay a visit to a Taiwanese gal who works there. Unfortunately, she was on leave and my friend was outside LV, initially wanting to get a super hot gal to go to the HFJ with him. He asked me to join him at LV so I went there. We picked up the gal's friend and the 4 of us went to Sentosa in 2 cars. I was not obligated to accompany him, we were just out to have some fun n drinks with some gals we picked up. The gal is attractive but I'm just not interested to want to develop into a long term thing or to take it to the next level.
Second question. Yes I asked the obvious question. I wasn't lamenting on my catch who turned out to be very attracted to me. I asked the obvious question to illustrate a point that's been echoed repeatedly in this thread. Don't be desperate. When you become desperate, your target will lose interest. It's the same for both gender.
Third question. Yes, I do attract gals I am interested in. This one I can't say too much. Let's just say this 女神 who has thousands of followers and hundreds of "likes" on every posted pic, who doesn't reply to comments, has began to "like" my posts, flys in to meet me and will be flying in to meet me again. But this one I'm not going to take it all the way and make it long term as it involves a lot of money. Also, my modus operandi is not to go for long term.
I showed Bro WB some of the messages the gals sent me. I sent one such print screen to my friend. He called me immediately and said: dude, you need an escape plan! I said, I don't need one, I'll just ignore her when I don't feel like playing along. Yes, we are that afraid of "commitment". Like my friend said: we are here to provide them (KTV gals) an activity partner n fill their void. Remember the super hot gal he went out with? She's a super cockteaser. Has many suitors who bought her so many gifts n expensive watches. My friend spent nothing on her, except the going rate when we visit LV n drinks when they go out. He sent her to the airport. But there was an old man who kept insisting to send her off n even waited outside her house. Even when she gave an excuse that she's going to the airport with one of her gf. The old man saw my friend. He watched helplessly as she got into my friend's car. While in the car, he called her and asked why she bluff him. So you see, when you become desperate, you lose. Of cos, when my friend told me the incident, we had a good laugh, but we also know too well that there are many men out there suffering like that old man. Question is - who do you want to be? The cheated man or the confident guy who just want to have some fun?
I always encourage my gf to go out with other guys. She thinks I'm very 狂妄自大. But I told her: if you don't go out with more guys, how would you know I'm the best? And last I checked, she's still very much attracted to me.
I hope I have answered your questions satisfactorily.
