I wrote this piece on 2 other forums and I think it would be cool to share my experience here too.
Hopefully, brothers (maybe sisters) can gain from it. All are welcome to share their experience or comment, if any...
FWB a.k.a. Friends with Benefits
A friend with whom one has an occasional and casual sexual relationship. Others might call it FB a.k.a. Fuck Buddy.
You can goggle many information on how to find such a "friend" or many Pick-up Artist (PUA) skills in engaging with a gal.
My take, all these information are based on overseas and seldom works in Singapore environment, especially for local Singaporeans.
They are many issues that local men faces that create a much difficult move to find a FWB or even a One Night Stand (ONS).
The No. 1 problem that local men face is ... Fuck Place!
Most locals stay with their parents.
They may have their own bed room
But hell ... try bringing a gal back at night to hump her. You gonna sneak her in and out or risk kana from your parents when they found out.
Luckily, we got our trust worthy - H81, with their transit facility.
But some gals doesn't like to follow you to a budget hotel, fear of being see as a hooker.
If you can solve the "Fuck Place" issue, you are on a great start to many fantastic sexual romance~!
One important message that men must learn, IMO:
WOMEN LOVE SEX AS MUCH AS MEN DO
Nonetheless, just because women love sex, doesn't mean they will jump into bed with You!
What makes you so special as compared to the other many men that she met???
- Are you are Brad Pitt look alike (super handsome)?
- Do you have a deep pocket (freaking rich)?
- A real smooth talker (pick-up artist)?
- Great personality and character (pure chemistry connection)?
- Most importantly ... Do you have the guts?!
Generally, I seek a great time with women with the understanding:
- Men are not God’s gift to Women. You got to work your way to win her.
- Women are God’s gift to Men. Treat them with respect, even in bed.
- Women think with their big head, Men with their small head.
- Women are emotional beings, get to them mentally, you get to them sexually.
- Men should ask Women out for a date, not ask them out for a fuck.
- Know your limits. If you are not David Beckem, don’t except to date Victoria Caroline Adams (but there are some exceptional cases, I know… I did).
The above is to my personal experience, which I had digested and accept the rational behind.
I work the ways to gain access into her mind, and I do see possibility in getting in between her legs; or
She longing to get into my pants.
YMMV...
to be continue...