Re: Friends with Benefits
The Approach (Mobile Apps – e.g.: WeChat / QQ / MoMo)
I personally had fell in love with WeChat.
I have given up AFF and Craigslist after I get my hands on WeChat.
I can’t really get the hand of QQ and MoMo is too chi~na~!
There are many benefits of using WeChat, but the most important is: I have scored on many occasions.
With WeChat, you can utilize the function of “People Nearby” (used to be known as “Look Around”), “Shake”, or “Drift Bottle”.
I personally only turn on “People Nearby”, which I will explain later part.
I had gathered much info and sharing with others on how to score with WeChat, and we come down to 4 points.
Profile Image
Human are attracted to good things with their 5 basis senses: sight, smell, touch, taste, sound.
Through WeChat, a good profile image gives you a better way of communicating with the other party.
If you don’t really have a selfie profile, it can only say that you are insecure, lack of confidence, or simply had something to hide.
I had mentioned earlier that looks is not everything a girl look for a guy.
But if you ain’t that handsome, why seek girls that go for looks?
Seek an average looking gal (if she also has a selfie profile).
So what kind of selfie gives a better chance?
One that can let out your good charisma, with great personality and your current living status.
A profile image that shows you driving (meaning you might own a car) is so much better than an image that show you are doing snow skiing, covering every part of your face and body.
Seek
When you use the function “People Nearby”, you might turn out with a long list.
So which will be the gal that you wanna tackle?
I would say, anyone and everyone that you think you got an eye for.
But for some, it might be a long short.
For example:
Her profile reads: “May our Love be forever Lasting”
Damn, she must be attached. You still wanna try your luck and time on her?!
Sometimes, you might find some that says: “ain’t ever going to trust man anymore”
Likely she had been recently dump, and I would say, you will have a better chance with her
Pick-Up Opening
Hi … How are you … Hey there … Good Day …
Gosh … How boring are those?!
I tried and had a 80% chance the gal get back to me with the following:
“Hi, is that really your photo? You really resemblance actress Ms XXX XXX XXX”
Or
“Hi, is that really your photo? I think I seen you somewhere”
And since you used “People Nearby”, likely she had been to your nearby location.
Upon Added as Friend
There you go … start communicating.
But remember … Talk, not checking on her background status.
If you had added her from “People Nearby”, used that nearby area as a form of communicating direction.
The rest is simply up to individual mind to flow…
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