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Originally Posted by OceanLi
Kudos to WB, this thread is longlift ..... haha.
Actual facts that most gal who claimed they are from Chengdu thesedays. Well, they are from the 2nd or 3rd tier incorporated county.
In fact, if you chat with them and with some historic understanding you will know that they are not the authentic Chengdu Breed. 
Its just like small reddot, the boundary redraw and remap.
Cheers,
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Bro,
These gals r not from Chengdu.
Cheers!
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Good afternoon!
I hv received a 2nd PM from bro XX. He is the bro who concurred with my statement that "all human interactions are business transactions."
"Hi bro
Nice to see my post on your thread, sure stroked my ego haha.
Regarding your reply, how sobering and cruel truth is.... Yet how many people truly grasp the implications of this "noble" truth?
Given your answer, concepts such as unconditional love, loyalty, friendships, etc are all nothing but figments of imagination and delusions....
Understanding is probably the easiest part, acceptance is another
hurdle and embracement is probably the hardest, don't all of us wish to be intoxicated by the romantic notions of "true" love and loyalty?
“For of men(be it friends or family) it may generally be affirmed, that they are thankless, fickle, false studious to avoid danger, greedy of gain, devoted to you while you are able to confer benefits upon them, and ready, as I said before, while danger is distant, to shed their blood, and sacrifice their property, their lives, and their children for you; but in the hour of need they turn against you.”
Bro if i may be so bold as to ask, how do you form deep and close relations with other given the mercenary nature of people, hypocrisy and futility of it all?
Hope to hear from you soon.
Regards,
Your nihilist supporter"
Dear bro XX,
Thank u for your comments n questions.
Is there unconditional love? Selfless love for another person? Really? Actually "loving" someone makes one feels good n it's all abt oneself.
Will you "love" your son the same way if you find out that he is not your own flesh and blood? Will you fall in love with a girl if she is very fat, hideously ugly and deformed?
Let's assume that you're a rich, handsome, healthy, well educated n heterosexual young man of 25. You're in love w/ a beautiful SYT, your dream girl, who also loves u deeply. If she has an accident tomorrow, her face is grotesquely disfigured n she can't move her legs forever, will u still love her n take care of her until u die at a ripe old age? And never, ever make love to another girl? I seriously doubt that. Your family will try to talk u out of it. Even if u answer yes, it's still abt u. Somehow u feel good abt yourself and/or u believe in Karma...and you may even commit suicide w/ her. In either case, I think you're mentally sick haha.
What if you're on honeymoon w/ your beautiful wife n she suffers the above disfigurement n injuries? What has changed? Would u act differently because she is your legal wife?
IMHO, the so-called unconditional love is still selfish. You get something in return. I'll still consider it a business transaction. You give something n you receive something.
This romantic, unconditional love and apparently altruistic acts have been celebrated by poetry n literature in every culture. But the truth is not so romantic.
By understanding true human nature n by being brutally honest abt my intentions, desires n mission, I feel that I hv deepened my RS w/ all those who r close to me. It's give and take, I give something and I receive something. Yin and Yang, negatives charges balanced by positive charges, action and reaction are equal and opposite, cause and effect, Karma...everything must be a fair business exchange.
Those who hope to get or have gotten something for nothing will be very disappointed and very sorry, sooner or later hahaha. This is a certainty. The universe must be in equilibrium.
If I give advice abt certain subjects I'm good at, free of charge and w/o expecting any rewards, I'm doing it because I feel good abt myself. And I feel good abt helping others. I'm happy n others r happy. I'm happy when I see others doing well. It's still abt me. It's still a fair business transaction.
Cheers!
Bro WB