[racerboy]

ok TS, i had the same situation as you. but mine had ended. and i paid a huge price. if u don't mind, let me share my story

our first meeting was at christmas eve 2013, and me and my friends booked a room at one of a viet ktv beside a foodcourt. i am the guy always on time, i was first to reach the ktv. so, i ordered beer and playing hp games inside the room. 9.15pm, and girls started to push open the door to ask, can she sit down or not. believe it or not, i do not have a preference for viet girls, and most of the time, when i sit a girl, it is to appease my friends, as i am really not into them.

so, one by one, i rejected them WITHOUT even looking at them. it was when one girl hestiated to close the door, and i look up at her. she just caught my eye. she is what i always wanted in a girl. shoulder-length hair, sharp features and big boobs (yeah, i like big boobs). but mind you, she is very well dressed (not in a slutty dress) and she carried herself well. she speak good english, which i find it quite rare

so she sat with me. drink with me and sing a couple of viet song which i totally dont understand. but she sings well. after a while she left, and i also transferred room (cos we book the big room but it was not yet ready when i came in, so waitress allocated a small room for me first) and for a few hours, we never met.

time passed by, it was 11.30pm, and suddenly, she came out from the room opposite me, and i quickly signal her to come in. i asked her why she did not find me, she said she thought i left, cos when she return to the previous room, there is no one.

ok, i thought. and the funny thing is she stayed with me throughout the countdown. i think i heng because the girls will often sit with their fav customer or big spenders for the countdown. but she stayed with me throughout. so time flies and its almost 2am. my friends egged me to bring her to hotel (which i dont want) but again, to appease them, i agreed because all of them have bring girl go hotel. she agreed to go with me (again, strange, if she has bf in sg, she should be spending time with him instead) we proceed on to a nearby disco J-*** and continued drinking until 4am. after that, we proceed to hotel.

however, few days had passed, i started to think of her (dont know whether is the good sex or ?) and we went out. all in all, total i brought her to hotel 4 times, each time paying $200 (i know some might argue its too ex)

then end of jan, time for her to go back vn.but during feb, we start to chat in wechat, to the point of everyday video calling each other and talk till very late. then i itchy mouth say i want come hcmc find her, and she agreed.

soon, time for me to leave hcmc, i chickened out and told her an excuse saying i cannot come because my business failed and owe people many money. but she say i just come, everything she pay for me. i was thinking, wah, all expenses paid trip, why not? so i gong gong proceed there without thinking of the later consequences.

it was an awkward meeting in hcmc airport. i mean, i know her only purely on sexual transaction, but this time, it was something like a friend-friend trip. i dont know what to say or how to behave. i can feel that she feels the same way too. but we started to warm up and we left the airport on her white little lamb. upon reaching the hotel, with the fire burning inside us, we made passionate love and each love session is cum inside her.

on the last night, we drank wine while making love. it was really passionate. then she fall asleep. i then want to surf net, so i took her phone and use. knn i itchy hand go and open her sms and see. whoa, so many boyfriends ah!!! i felt angry and drink finish all the wine plus all the beer in the mini bar. i went to the toilet to drink because i dont want wake her up. still she woke up and see why i so angry/sad. then she ask me did i check her phone. i say yes. she cried and say sorry. i was thinking, fuck it, in a few more hours, i will leave hcmc and treat it as fuck and forget trip.

morning came, and we make love again, then she went for shower. i quietly took her phone and delete all of my contacts, sms, and wechat so that she could not find me. clever right?

we had breakfast (i remember is com tam) and off to singapore i go. she is going to vang tau (i think so) the next day, so i thought maybe we can treat it as a experience learnt.

then 2 days past, one night, my phone suddenly had someone 'LINE' me. i take a look. it was her! the sms is that she is crying and searching high and low for me. well, i dont know how she can find me in line, when i never add her in line. she plead me not to go and she said she loved me alot. i was like, ok, i anything la. strange thing is i dont give her money, i dont have car and house, she is a stunner and many suitors. why would she want to be with me. it was then i continued the r/s with her (big big mistake)

when she came back to sg in april, she would often skip or go work late, just to be with me. i can feel she really want to be with me at that point of time. and on my part, i also slowly fell in love with her. we would often go to east coast beach and sit on the bench, chat until 6am. we talk about our dreams, our lives, and of course, marriage. (knn, at that point of time, i just agree to whatever she say) it was a sweet time for us.

time flies fast, now is july. all in all, i had visited her in hcmc for 5 times. each time i go, is she paid all expenses for me. when in hcmc, she brought me to meet her friends, and also visited her dad's shop. even her good friend ( a male friend) also says she loves me deeply, and she declare i am her future husband. she wanted me to stay her house when i come hcmc, but i declined. but anyway, along the way we also had many problem, and u guessed it. it is regarding her work.

i found that she is keeping alot of boyfriends (during the first hcmc trip), initially that is alright with me. because come on, free sex, who dont want. and also, her boyfriends are giving her money to spend. but when i fell in love with her, i tried to control her. but the more i control, the more lies she tell, to the point i could not take it anymore.

we decided to break off in late june (my last trip was 13june to hcmc) and we had a huge quarrel. but, she would often wechat me 'dm ni, how can forget u' and many other things. and from the sms, i can feel she really love me alot. she also cried alot and had sent me voice messages saying why i hurt her. i am heartbroken too, but i really cannot continue the r/s when she needs to sleep with so many 'boyfriends' for money. i again decided to KIV the r/s ( fucking stupid mistake on my side)

when she arrived a few days ago, i knew she come on 1st. but she said she come on 2nd. when i grilled her, she said she went to hotel with one customer (now i dont know is boyfriend or not, because the guy always sms her) when i grilled her again, she said she dont love me anymore. she only love him. then i asked her why she can love him so fast. she said she no more love me but love him now. i am more heartbroken. perhaps she is out to spike me, or perhaps she really loves me and do not want to hurt me further. so by saying this, i will leave her. or perhaps, she really love him. or perhaps that guy is giving her alot of money. i dont know, and maybe i forever will not know the answer.

finally, i do not think she is out to scam me. in fact, i think during that point of time, she loves me very much, to the extend of she wants to be my wife. she is willing to have my baby. during my last trip to hcmc, all love making session, she forced me to come inside her during the fertile period.

when i go out with her, i portray myself as a very poor man (remember i told her my business failed). when i go out with her, basic things i will pay. but sometimes she will slip a couple of $50 into my wallet when she see i have no money. she even says she will borrow money for me when i jokingly ask her have 1k to borrow or not. and she also say she will help me take back my rolex ( i bluff her i pawn my watch) she told me, she must let me have 'face' when i am out with my friends. i have a galaxy tab, when she met me on 2nd july, she ask where is it. i say sell already (because she loves to check my phone etc and ask many question on who is this, who is that) then she ask me how much i sell. i anyhow shoot say $200. she then pass me $200 tell me go take back the phone.

and no, she does not wants to do the marriage scam. why i can confirm? because i read her phone sms and know there are 2 men wanted to marry her (1 in early 30s, 1 in early 40s). she also told me personally, if she ask 1 of them to marry, sure they will agree.

anyway, 2 things i can confirm. one, is i slowly fall in love in her, to the extend i need her. second, is she really loves me unconditionally at that point of time. we both have debts ( i bluff her i owe people lots of $) but she always encourage me to work hard. she told me to wait her 1 year. let her settle everything, she will come to me. we discuss many things, like how to grow my business, what business can be done etc. you know, at that point of time, we are really excited about our future. its like in the movies, 2 poor souls that have nothing but debts, but share a common goal with a view to live together forever.

yes, i love her alot now, but just felt we met at the right time but at the wrong place in the wrong situation.

anyway to TS, i paid a big price, but the price i paid, the currency is not in dollars and cents. in my case, the currency is my feelings, and it cost 10times more than money. it will haunt me for very long.

so TS, if u are strong and able to withstand this kind of shockwaves ( which i think 99% viet ktv girls will bound to give u) then u can try to be with her. if not, just let her go, so that she can find her own happiness.