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Originally Posted by Bibibabiboo80
So after the 2nd meet up, we started seeing each other on weekends outside of her work-time. Went dating at ECP, Bugis and other places. But each of our meetings ended up on bed, all condomless.(she even asked me to shoot inside saying she wants baby, which I refused of coz, since I still wasn't sure of my feelings for her, and also how my family would react to me marrying a Viet girl) But most of the times were initiated by her. So when I say I want to send her home after the dates, she will give me a sad face and say things like "you don't love me that's why don't want to accompany me?", "I want to stay with you" etc. so I Lanlan.
Anw, after dating her abt a month she found out she had to go back to Vietnam early coz her boss booked a return flight the next day for her already. That night I went to meet her and hugged each other and cried. It was also during this time that I realised that I had feelings for her and not just for the sex(can't blame me we fuck EVERYTIME we meet!) I sent her off the following day and I agreed to fly to Vietnam to see her whenever I am able to.
Even when she went back, we constantly keep in contact thru Wechat and sometimes she'll call me. And yeah, I do miss her from time to time.
So now my dilemma is, should I continue seeing her and risk my mother's fury?(I told my mother about her and she was very against it...)
Or move on with my bachelor life?(she told me recently she will not be coming SG to work in the near future)
The only thing I didn't like about her was her pte ltd English, communication is a big problem for us.
Any kind and experienced bros wish to give me advice on this? Seriously lost now..
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If u ask anyone about what she is really thinking - whether play u or love u, your guess is as good as mine coz we don't know her.
If u want a real advise, then, find a real partner in real life. Through friends' friend, or heck even chk out the waitress at a cafe, not asking u to fck around but get to know who you think can share yr life with. I'm not judging but how r u supposed to get along with everyday activities, how to take care of parents, which insurance to buy, etc, because love is not yet everything. When the steam runs out - which I guarantee it will, then whats next?
Explore before u settle. Life is too short n soon u will understand y so many samsters around
