Hey guys, I am really confused right now. Recently, my girlfriend of 3.5 years started changing after she came to know a malaysian guy which she called sissy sam.
1. She jumps to that guy's defence when i said he is a sissy while we are talking (She is the one that told me that guy is a sissy and a gigolo). She also keeps mentioning that guy so often until i am so pissed.
the more you think of someone the more you mention them
2. She suddenly started wearing heavy make up as well as donning really short skirts. I also caught her washing those really sexy lingerie which she only wore when we have intimate couple moments (told me that it made her very 'high' and make her go into the mood for sex). When confronted, she said that she ran out of underwear to wear. (Thats complete bullshit). She refuse to wear it when we had sex during the past few months even after i told her to. She claims it is uncomfortable!
it's obvious she's wearing it for someone else isn't it?
3. She brought clothes for that malaysian guy as well as me. She told me that the clothes was a gift from her mum (Lying). She even show a great deal of concern about the fit of clothes on the malaysian guy and asked for pics of the malaysian guys wearing them while she did not even asked about mine. ( found out when i snooped through her message). I did not even know that the malaysian guy has it as well!
buying stuff for him too.. hmm..
4. She refuses to have sex as well as rejecting my sexual advance. She had also stopped initiating sex and physical contact. She claimed that she wants to be a good girl and wait till marriage. Seriously?
that means she found someone else she'd rather fuck
5. She asked that guy out a couple of times (she did not even asked me out for the past few months. We only go out when i asked to)and that malaysian guy even asked her to go jb with him. This is how the conversation went:
Guy: we go jb do tgt lah (facial or smth)
Her: Need ask my mum first worx
Guy: Lie to your mum and say going with bf (me) lah.
Her: going with new bf lo! haha.
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Guy: I know u kidding la. i know we impossible de
Her: Sometimes impossible de stuffs also can happen de.
What the heck is she trying to pull here??? They also chatted frequently through the night and plan outing tgt while i am sleeping. (Snooped her messages). We have been tgt for 3.5 years alry.. She wont even go to chalet with me but want to go jb with him??
go jb do tgt, and you can still think facial. you power.
6. My gf started asking me wierd question such as if she could go out with her friends or anything. Why would she even ask that? Trying to make herself feel better for going out with that 'friend' of hers?
so that she can justify that she's out with her 'friends'
7. She demands to know where i am everytime.. When i took a bus to her house, she would keep asking about where i am as well as what time i am reaching.etc. is she trying to hide something?
guilty conscience. because she is cheating, she feels like you might be as well and so she wants to keep checking on you. if she does find something off with you then she can blame that you were the one who first let her down.
Please advice...
Thanks alot...
Heartbroken boy...