I will only loan if I have money I don't need
if you loan and she no job then forget it
make up story like you are jobless or severe pay cut
if she bluffing she will wait for the next grandpa to die when you have money ...
or ask her detail and say you can buy ticket
my 2 cents, don't be carrot head to give her Money so she can fun with another guy
Been there, done that.
bro, Sunday you will never have any professional hanging around there, as pinay professional look down on maid and don't want associated with maids
can safely say all are maid, just different classes and their own internal rankings working there
the sexy girls, if you see after 7 plus, are dancer / staff. they are under strict rules, company residence and no take out. only drinks
if you got loads of $ you can try your luck if they willing to take risk of going out with you
those caught by management get fined, sent back and barred from ever working in any of their outlets, too much to loose for the girls
if you saw sexy dressed girls earlier than 6 or so, no idea.