its tough to be a nice guy la. Its like some kind of evaluation. When first cheong , want to help others. Then one day some idiot will play you out and accuse you of something you have no intentions of. Slowly , you get hardened and pissed off at all those who take take take and don't give back!
I met one idiot a few years ago , say want to join us for Songkran. Met him for a beer at Golden Mile and let him know all the details , from Bell service to good hotel deals. I even booked everything for him only for him to say that he is not going! Luckily all COD so didn't lose any money but still pissed off la!
Newbies are lucky to have Soi 6 there. Just text/email and he will help if he can. The least you can do is buy him or his girls a few drinks la!