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Originally Posted by city slicker
Bro WB,
"BUT, he must convey to her that he DGAD if she leaves n that he'll walk away if his boundaries r violated. It will be her big loss n she knows he has many options.
He doesn't care what she thinks/says/does or what others think/say/do because he is so confident, so comfortable in his own skin n has such great self mastery that he is totally detached from from any one female n from any outcome n life.
Such a MAN is very, very rare n will be extremely attractive to most females."
Such an alpha male is indeed a rare and cherished species.
Reminds me of Sean Connery ... "My name is Bond, James Bond."
In real life however, lesser mortals like us (and even some seasoned players) would find it extremely difficult to control our emotions when we ultimately meet our match - "the One". On the surface, a guy may seem DGAD, but inside his heart is hurting with the vivid memories of good ole days. Perhaps women fare better at the third of 3Fs (Forget) than men ?
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Bro city slicker,
Real self confidence, emotional control n self mastery are very difficult to achieve.
A man can be super rich or is a real life prince or even an emperor of China largely on account of luck and/or inheritance. Such a high status man may hv little self confidence n self mastery. And he is often frustrated, insecure, anxious, fearful, unhappy n angry. I would say the First Emperor of China was such a man haha.
Women n men r very similar. Foreign WLs who come to SG only want money n are very difficult to KC.
A man who is hurting inside is not one who really DGAD. Deep down, he is lacking in self confidence n emotional control and is pretending to be mentally tough, dominant n manly. He is a fake alpha n he has been KC-ed by the "Special One." I'm sorry to say that he is a pathetic loser, at least as far as she is concerned hahaha.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by a2014
This is true, I have seen people who don't give a dam to any women he met, basically, after enjoying, eventually will develop into different excuse for not being good enough for him. We can easily said "his boundary being violated" because the woman do not want to be master by him, which now a day very little women want to be a slave.
In fact inside him is full of regret and emptiness.
I have also seen women changing partners like changing cloth.
I guess it takes two hands to clap.
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Bro a2014,
If a man is full of "regret and emptiness," he is not one who DGAD. He is a pretender. He needs to develop real emotional strength n self mastery asap.
BTW, healthy women hv very strong libido n they love to hv sex w/ the right man.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by damong777
Bro wb,
The author has an end game or goal which he may worked all his life to achieve the state of confidence. Not everyone may achieve it. But what he wrote still useful as a guide though how is applied may differ from each person. His level of self awareness is very high to be able to achieve what he wrote.
In end boils to one's goal or aim reinforced by confidence and even money.
I seen people super success in work but craps in relationship. So best to know what you want and do within one's means. Too many threads of people became burnt, bitter or vengeful. People will always blame everything, but sometimes good to reflect back, learn from it and move on. We cannot go back in time to right wrongs.
My philosophy hence is mistakes only make one wiser and stronger. And set goals within possible reach. Dun ask for sky and fall flat to earth.
Just my thoughts from my experience in work and leisure.
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Bro damong777,
Tks for sharing.
IMHO, most emperors of China had failed RS haha.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by sniper968
Top notch advice there.
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Bro sniper968,
Pls act on the advice n tell us how well you're doing.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Good morning!
I just received a PM from a bro.
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Hi bro,
I've been reading your thread and I must say its a pretty good read.
I'm quite recent to this game and recently visited china dolls. I caught my eyes on some of the singers. Out of curiosity, do they allow BY and how do you nego with them?
Is it an upfront thing that you speak with this girls or you have to build chemistry.
What you've been writing on PVOs I must say is very intriguing
Best Regards,
XXX
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Hi bro XXX,
I hv very limited experience w/ singers while they r still on active duty here in SG. There r many very experienced bros who could answer ur questions.
This much I know. These girls r here to make as much money as possible n as soon as possible. Most of them can be BY-ed if ur price is right.
Connecting n building rapport w/ them can only help. But you must be sexual n let them know you want their pussies asap. Don't waste time n money. Show them you DGAD what they think/say/do n you can walk away anytime...
Don't forget to bring good condoms. You also need time to monitor her activities. If u don't want her to work, negotiate w/ the HFJ n "buy all her hrs" n BY her.
If they demand a lot, it's cheaper for u to import pretty SYTs directly from PRC for ur private pleasure. There r many MILFs too...if that is ur cup of tea.
Good luck,
Bro WB