[xiaoqiang]

Forgiving others is to forgive ourself, if u can't make the situation better, pls leave the issue untouch. Let go and enjoy your life. Not tiring meh? Everyday hug the useless issue and think of how to make the issue worse?

In Buddha's teaching, it's because you own her in the past life, this life u need to return. If u can't let go, next life u will get back ur fruits and she will be your this life again. Rest the issue, you will have ur sight further.