[mutantchicken]

Dear SEAJ
Im gonna go on a bit of a rant so just bear with me
I will just say that your MISSION is doomed to fail.
I take it your mission is to
1 Save newbies from stealth agents
2 Educate the masses and find new cheong spots esp with the demise of the china market.

Point 1
Firstly the days that sex forum such as sbf and other english (westerner) used websites as a source of educating material are gone. I question how educating it was in teh first place, i mean how hard is it to figure how much is a barfine without consulting a website. But nowaways its filled with newbies asking questions asked 100 times before, lots of tcss and the rest boastful claims/fr and last but not least indirect advertising by stealth agents. Through all this someone is supposed to sift through and find a nugget of information. That being said someone spend countless hours developing what is known as a search function so the samster vsat has no excuse for asking that question given that the answer was posted a mere 10 pages back. Next vsat claims to have mongered all his life yet he has a mere 16 posts all consisting of asking questions and tcss, surely someone who has mongered all his life can be more of a contributer rather than taking like a leech. And this is my point what comes first the chicken or teh egg, the stealth agent or the leeching lazy newbie. Maybe if newbies liek vsat had contributed more and helped others previously he would have more people willing to guide him, so instead what u have is a selfish taker asking if anyone is so generous as to guide him...what guide him then have to worry he competes for teh same girls, worry thast he doenst run away from the bill, worry that he doenst do something to bring a bad name to a estabnlishment teh guide frequents to, but ignoring any negatives, what benefits are there to guide him ....NONE.
Enter the stealth agent, now surely if the stupid newbie hasnt realised that a stranger offering him a deal thats too good to be true, is just suspect activity then he is too stupid for even your education. People that stupid should be allowed to die (its just evolution). By you spood feeding him he will only get lazier this attracting creating more stealth agents
Point 2
In light of what i have said ie the content of the modern day sex forum, the laziness and spoil the market type mentality of the modern day samster, do u really think thats someone who has found a new "fishing hole" will risk its ruination by broadcasting it. And even in your situation sheesh if u found SK uncomfortable, then you will NEVER find "virgin" territory to your liking as damn sure teh girls wont speak english nor chinese for that matter, tehre definately will be agressive locals to contend with and it wont be set up in 5 star facilities. It no point looking for the best tourist spots then later say its too touristy..
6 years ago when i first joined sbf, after i been in vn for 2 years i sent out 10-12 pm's to the supposed seniors of the vn thread asking if they were free to drinks, drinks on me JUST to socialise, not asking then to guide me or anything, I got 3 responses, 2 saying they didnt live here so not really avail to meet, teh remaining agreeing but he was based on hanoi. Then later after i started posting my FR, guess what, all these pm started comming is, a few from teh seniors themselves asking to meet.
So then from these meets, some juicy bits of intel was passed on to other seniors and this has been teh fallout
1 one guy used my info as part of his sex tour business even copying my Fr as a testimonial for his business
2 another one used it to act like a hero/mr know it all, then using that status become like a stealth agent if not getting commission but using to freeload
3 another asked intel but it was always one way traffic
4 anotehr asked so he can collect info so as to prop up his position as senior

So pardon me if im a just tad cynical of the "Shareing is careing" and we should be helping each other "brotherhood" philosophy.Finally i will use the standard cowardly cop out used by many here , "sorry if i offend, please ignore if you do find it offensive"