QUOTE=cmelater;12970234]Money is a dangerous allurement..... a man who is a potential carrot.
Clamouring over a gal and even begging her are both very wrong things to do......................
A friend once shared with me that he like his viet gal a lot and he had never overspent on this gal. His reasoning is that making a girl love him (rather than his money) is far more tenable than showering material gifts.
Honestly, if its material gifts, there are too many competitors. How to beat the rest of the men? My view is, be your own man, than to bow to the woman. The bros (esp WB) will understand my point. The man to have his own stand.
Never be in a rush to get the "deal done". What for. Expending large amounts of funds and time are not sure fire ways to close the deal. A relationship is like a plant. Both require time to nurture and grow.[/QUOTE]
Bro cmelater,
Thanks for ur excellent post.
"A relationship is like a plant. Both require time to nurture and grow."
I'll remember that.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by risingup
Always respected yr posts, I was wondering, if we always show minimal care, do we just wait for girls to approach us?
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Bro risingup,
Read the post by bro cmelater below.
I think what you do is not as important as your right mindset. You must believe you hv higher social n sexual value than the girl. You don't chase her, you qualify her. You must show some interest in her, but must not care too much n she can take it or leave it...
Always remain relaxed, unflappable n detached, especially facing stressful situations n adversity. She is always watching u (mostly at the subconscious level). A girl or woman is always watching n testing her man to see whether he has the right stuff (emotional mastery n mental toughness), whether he has been w/ her 3 hrs or 30 years. It's hard wired in her genes...for the safety n survival of herself n her kids.
There was a girl who told me she had rejected a customer who offered 5K for ST. The mummy was very unhappy w/ her, kept calling her...the customer was very furious but won't give up. I don't know what she said was true or not. That is not important, the point is that if a girl rejects u, the right attitude is to remain as cool as cucumber. She may say yes the next day haha. I hv had more than a few girls who hung up on me...who later became my mistress, after several weeks to over a year.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by cmelater
I think its more relevant to draw a line between reasonable amount of care and that which is excessive.
Not so much as to show little care or wait for them to come.
What is dangerous is to be to overly "enthu" in showing and trying to attract the gal. This can be dangerous. Like, some of my cheongster bros did before. One of them was so enthu until he literally waited for the gal to knock off from work at 3 am daily. (the gal is a singer).
Once its excessive, you can guess what the gal will do next. In fact, there is no need to guess. Humans being humans. Its natural for the gal to start to take it for granted or take it easy. But, this is not to advise you to play hard to get.................................
If you are out for the gal (for real), then don't act. If you are out for fun, also don't act. .............................................  |
Bro cmelater,
Good post. Tks for sharing.
Cheers!
Bro WB