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Originally Posted by kjjsexy
Hi Ccsor, I can relate to wat u r gg through. Initially I'm puzzled why hubby isn't keen to hv regular sex w me. For past year, I've been hankering after n pressurizing him, he begin to come to me but he can only make it once a week. We've been tog since I was 18 n now I'm in my mid-30 and he's a decade older, so I think, mayb he feels sexing w me is boring. I feel cut-off sexing w him too, as he only takes care of his own needs. I've to do everything for foreplay - BJ, licking even got to do my own self service while he lazily lie there. He doesn't go down on me (said he doesn't like to do it) n rejected my frenching attempts. Recently, I told him I wanna give him a massage n he just said he's not into it. When I told him, I like to parade in lingerie for his viewing, he said he's not into tt as well. However, he likes to watch porn but has recently totally stopped due to my pressurizing. I told him I can always dress up n be his porn gal or game for anything he fantasise if it's within my natural means. He merely responded he is unadventurous in sex.
So it's just BJ and then he will lick me abit and then can't wait to penetrate. Is decades old sex relegated to such unconnected sex? He finds it okie but this kinda sex doesn't satisfy me. Is he behaving normal in decades old relationship or is he abnormal or simply not interested in sexing w me? Do u think I can ever get him to change?
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Frankly speaking, its either he have much younger women outside or he turned into a gay.
Other probabilities are you're already not his type or...you ate outside and he know what you did and think you're dirty. Did you learn your skills with him or...suddenly become super skillful?
Worst case scenario is that he's a gay now and making love with you is just a responsibility/job. Try communicate with him. Just prepared for the worst.
If:
You: You got women outside!!!
Him: Anyhow say!!!
You: You got men outside?
Him: .....
Get a lawyer to process the paperwork or discuss with him for alternative methods. Maybe you could keep the marriage going on while he could be with his boyfriend and you could feed some hungry bros here...
On worst case scenario...that is....