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Originally Posted by jeffhardyz
Oh OK, I didn't know that there're still some advocates for WL Puyings arnd in this forum. Fine, I can respect that. I agree wif most of wat u mentioned abt them, like their needs etc. What we disagree is that U seems to stereotype every ppl who goes to LOS to find WLs wif the intentions to exploit them & look for cheap thrills. Maybe u knew plenty of ppl like that, but pls dun judge everybody in the same light.
I know quite a no. of them (WLs) myself & I hav heard many of their stories alrdy. Whether I believe or not, it doesn't matter. Fact is if I like them & they hav given me a gd time, I'll definitely reward them for that. I met 2 WLs @ Bkk, who worked in S'pore as FLs b4, in the past & they've given me some of the Best times I've had @ in Bkk. 1 of them even took 2 days frm work juz to accompany arnd for 2 days str8. I took care of all her expenses & bought her gifts (worth arnd $200) when we went shopping. I even gave her 5000THB to compensate her for her time wif me, which she wanted to reject but I insisted that she took it. Some of u may still think that I'm cheapskate, Cai Tao or watsoever, I dun care! Come On guys, end of the day, it's juz a trade off, 你情我愿, no ones is forcing anything onto anybody.
I dun deny abt the truth of the example u quote abt WLs being exploited & suffered. Those things actually happens all the time in LOS & I oso feel sorry for them too. But if u look @ things in a diff direction, there're oso truck loads of Puyings who r down right cheaters who lived off naive guys who got hooked @ the same time too. U dun hear that many stories frm this aspect becos those who got scam will be ashamed to admit it, let alone share them. Again, I maintain my stand that it's all a trade off, mutual agreement thing. Bros who got scam juz hav to be smarter the nxt time.
Juz saying, Bro GATGP, no offence. Happy Chionging, fellas  |
Bro,
No worries and no offence taking...
And no, I am not a WL advocate. Just travel too much and seen too much... maybe look at the world differently with a little bit more compassion... Sometimes just by being born in the wrong place, wrong time, you are f&%Ked and the family literally have spend the next 3,4 generations getting out from the boon docks / kampung to make life better...
Lastly, I think we meant the same with "willing buyer willing seller" and 你情我愿 ?
For not to get scammed by WLs, go in EYES OPENed wide...
Cheers...