[soccerfreak]

Hey, just want some advice. My wife just delivered 2 mths back. Havent had sex since 3 mths before she delivered. Our sex life isnt say very active to begin with. Around like once every fortnight. I usually go ML to settle if I can find time.

But now that I have baby, I am trying to fight the temptation to go. It has helped that I rush home immediately after work and weekends I am taking care of baby. My wife is still not ready, or also doesnt have the mood or time for sex. I live in a tiny house with a new maid as well. So it is quite hard to find time. Whats more I also cant find a slot to hj at home (sometimes I do it in office toilet), plus doing it urself is just different feel.

I found out recently that a ML I rtm (i have never rtm before), is now back in Spore!! This made me even more gian!! Can you lao jiaos advice how I can curb it? I have been trying to find all the reasons to justify I can go...even thouh deep inside I know its wrong...