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Originally Posted by XinJiao
Bro War Bird
just read your last 3 pages. Interesting enough, it is the exact items i am missing. Emotional master.
Spent too much time reading tech and stuff that is bringing me nowhere. Hopefully I will be able to pick up the EQ portion fast enough. will be helpful in terms of work and relationship management. ( have wife liao... kid coming soon too.)
Nice writing on the learnings. Thumbs up for effort！
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Bro XinJiao,
Thanks for your post. You make my day!!
Yeah, if a man doesn't hv good emotional n self mastery, nothing else will work for him. Not just in his RS w/ gals/women, but also in biz, career n other areas of his life.
EMOTIONAL STRENGTH
"My theory is that women respond to this like nothing else on earth because the truth is that this is the greatest sign of power, and the most difficult to achieve, the most difficult for a woman to find in a man."
Let me be introspective n be brutally honest w/ myself n rate my own success w/ gals/women of my type.
From a scale of 0 to 10, 0 being the worst n 10 being the best. When I joined SBF in 2007, I was 0-1. And now, maybe 4-5. I hv a long way to go. My overall success parallels my improvement in emotional n self mastery.
革命尚未成功，同志仍须努力
A man w/ zero emotional mastery is a coward. Does a coward hv gallantry n honor? Could he provide for n protect his woman n her kids in times of needs n in dangerous situations? A coward will only dare to bully n assault people weaker than him.
The fictional Caledon Nathan Hockley in Titanic was a rich n handsome young man. He is a classic example of an evil coward!!
Cheers!
Bro WB