[korean]

Hi bro Warbird,

I'm quite interested in the topic "emotional mastery". I believe it is a huge topic to be covered, and personally I have many questions in my mind. But let me throw out each question one by one.

I did ask u abt whether monk has the ultimate emotional mastery. As there are many type of emotions, and I believe monk does has symphathy for lifes, I wonder whether that considered as emotional mastery. I do understand that the "emotianl mastery" we covered in this thread is mainly for bf/gf relationship....

Yes I agree monk has the ultimate "emotional mastery" for bf/gf relationship aspect, however personally I feel ladies won't be interested in monk as they know monk will never fall in love with them, and they basically got near to zero chance to win monk heart. What attract the ladies is you need to give them some hopes that they maybe able to win your heart, and typically you need to show them some emotion, but a controlled one. So I believe the ultimate emotional mastery is you can fully release your REAL emotion towards the ladies, but you can cut off or control your emotion as well as and when necessary, in chinese 收放自如. You let the ladies fully indulge in ur emotion, at the same time she is afraid of losing it as she know u can take it back too. I think gigolo probably has this ability at best in general, that y u can see so many ladies willing to folk out money to buy gigolo heart, even willing to die for the man if u had watched the hk rated movie "gigolo king I"

update: lol I just realize I didn't really ask any questions but sharing my thought, and I have somemore "questions" in my mind but will share with you next time. Just like to hear your opinion.