Bro Warbird,
I fully understand what you meant about having money does not mean you will have her heart. 100% agreed.
If I read your post correctly, that you want to have the woman's pussy AND heart - which is totally sensible - However, what I do not understand is, why would anyone want the heart of someone that sleeps with men for money in the first place?
The progression of events that you seem to look for, is the reverse of what regular 'loving couples' goes through (where usually the men win the women's heart FIRST, then their pussies).
Are you sure it is not just a different way of saying that you actually want a better service?