Good day everyone~
Yesterday I wrote quite a lengthy reply and somehow the post didn't show up on the thread, I checked my user Control Panel where the post DID appeared there. But today the post is already gone along with the post info in CP. I hope I didn't break any rules which warranted post deletion by the mod?
Anyway, it was never my intention to condescend, pontificate, or judge what people do, or whatnots, especially towards the people I barely know online and if I appeared to do so, it is really further from the truth.
The reason I joined the forum was out of curiosity, especially about the other side of life that I never experienced. To be honest with you, the farthest I have engaged myself with 'commercial sex' was visiting strip clubs, then go home. All my usual sexual encounters have been with my acquaintances, friends, girlfriends, never with strangers. Yeah, I'm old fashioned that way
I expressed what I only understand about the kind of relationships which I have experienced. That's why it came as a surprise for me to read the evolution of the thread, where picking up KTV girls was no longer portrayed as purely about lust/money, but much more than that. Hence my somewhat intrusive questions.
And to answer some of bro warbird's questions:
I'll be turning 40 soon, was born into a middle-class Chinese family but grew-up pretty much in a non-Chinese culture, currently working for a professional consulting company which has enabled me to live/work across Asia/Australia. My livelihood here as a foreigner is modest, and probably gonna take me a long time to reach the 'filthy rich' level.
The last heartbreak I had was with a Korean girl I knew during my time in Sydney some years ago. She had clear ideas about what she wanted in life, and with me being not-well-established, I knew my game was limited. That Korean girl went to live off a Taiwanese/Argentinian/Australian man. She left him after she got the Australian Permanent Residence. Such is life.
I supposed what bro warbird wrote about 'every woman is some man's ho, to an extent' does hold some truths to it.
For me, when I was younger.. from 10 women that I approached, probably just 1 would agree. As I grow older, I got a little bit better, perhaps 1.1/10??
hahahaha One valuable lesson that I learned over the years was that for a specific type of fish, we need to use specific type of lure. And I also learned that no matter how hard we try, sometimes the fish may not bite at all, sometimes they bite and left, and sometimes you got bored of it you have to let go.
One common thread though, that deep down inside every woman, there's a little girl. If you could reach to her very core, she would be yours. I am currently in a relationship with a strong-headed career woman and hopeful to settle down and have kids soon.
I have no doubt that bro warbird knows very well & really good at what he's capable of, with the KTV SYTs and everything. I am fully aware of my limitations at this point in time of my life, hence warmingly thank his generosity and would have to graciously decline his offer.