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Originally Posted by korean
thx for the advice. I have nothing to lose now. she didnt ask anything material from me, say no need to take care of her, i take care myself can alredi. got hand got leg got degree sure wont go hungry one. but I will still try hard.
been there once and this month i may visit her parent at hometown. wish me luck lol
btw what business r u doign there?
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Hi, sorry to interrupt....your conversation with greatdane88. Pls don't said that you have nothing to lose. Whatever decision we made today will always have a effect on our future....pls remember time is a factor that we can never win.
Just sharing. I stay in china for 6 years (Wuxi area) and travel all around CHINA helping to set up distribution network. Chongqing is a nice place but very humid and wet. I think you shouldn't make up your mind so fast on your business venture. Just take it as a break, go over to Chongqing and stay for a few months and see whether you can get use to the lifestyle. Weather, Healthcare, Food, Transportation.
I am 44, just take it as an advice....This is your life and not her. Friends, Partners and GFs.....come and goes. Not sure about your family status. I come back to SG because of my aging mother...and I wasn't around when my father past away. I was in Jinan then. You will always have something to lose and will always need to sacrifice.