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Originally Posted by PRCRammer
Upz this thread. No bros should cheong without reading this cheong thread. Kudos to bro warbird and all the seniors for their sharing  |
This is so true back in 2012 and still the same now.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Many experienced n dominant men get KC-ed n become the partners who care more n more in the RS, when they meet THE ONE AND ONLY (or so they thought). It doesn't matter if THE ONE is a WL or non-WL. In fact, if she is a legal wife, the results can be even more catastrophic.
A MAN needs to be mentally tough, dominant n be the one who cares the least in ANY AND EVERY RS. It doesn't mean you're heartless n callous, no no no, it only means you're hv formidable self mastery n are nonchaiant no matter what happens n you r always caring n responsible. Ironically, that kind behaviour is fatally attractive to women. The gal will become desperate, needy n crave u...conversely, being kind n sensitive n putting THE ONE on a pedestal is the kiss of death for the RS.
Let me post the following quote again (sent to me by 18 yo CL):
你用你的全部生命去谈一次恋爱，那这次恋爱必然不能成功；你用全部精力去谈恋爱，那你一定会被人玩死；你用 全部时间去谈恋爱，别人一定会嫌你烦。因为爱情 这事，你越是勤快，投入越多，它结果就越差。只有像懒人养花一样，爱搭不理，偶尔关心一下，才会新鲜。关心 越少，爱的越久。当一个男人不爱一个女人的时 候，往往能把这个女人弄得神魂颠倒，觉得他特MAN，特够味儿，特浪漫，特霸道特酷特能掌控大局。女人喜欢 甚至崇拜这样的男人，因为她们觉得有一种小鸟依 人的感觉。但事实上当男人真正投入爱情的时候就会变成男孩，当你认为那个男人特别耀眼的时候，对不起，他还 没爱上你。我的他曾经像个小孩，现在却越来越像成熟的男人了。究竟是我变了，还是他变了，或是 这感情变了？
Your comments r appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Bro, I really appreciate your post above.
CL sent you the passage above really makes sense. Never be insecure and needy. Dun put all your effort into a relationship.
Men must be mentally tough and try to be badass gentleman. Never worried about losing the gal. We men are the prize as what you had depicted.
Hope to comment more when I continue to read.
Have a great day sir.