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Originally Posted by warbird
I hv a dear bro YY who is a ladies man, a real life Don Juan. That is the opinion of many PRC gals. I concur. But, something strange has happened. He has been a Don Juan until he met his dream girl NN at Palace 8 KTV recently. For two months he has spent a lot of time n money on her, even accompanying her to Bintan, but in the end he still couldn't get her pussy. Why? Because YY put her on a pedestal n treated her like a goddess. Very tragic idea for any man. The man is the PRIZE n he must hv more power in a RS by caring less, otherwise a girl will come to despise him. She can't help it, it's in her genes.
He confessed his fondness n love for her within days after first meeting her!! He even offered to marry her!! I remember he was so excited when he showed her photos to me n said, my new GF!! Not my type, but one man's meat is...his love for her has not diminished despite daily advice from me n other esteemed kakis. We are all in my special Wechat grp. At least he now takes longer to reply to XX n we hv significantly limited his financial damage haha.
Now NN is back in China. Of course it's never too late for YY to turn the table on her. But he needs to change his mindset n strategies. Insanity is doing the same thing n expecting different results.
I received the following article from a RS n sex guru a few days ago. I did minimal editing n forwarded to YY only half an hr ago. I read it three times myself. Here is what I sent him:
The Kiss of Death with Women
You've met the most incredible girl...
You don't really know her, but you're pretty sure she's a Goddess... sent straight from Heaven... in jeans.
You exchanged glances in Chemistry ( in high school ), had a few brief conversations after class, and even bumped into her at the mall. (Talk about fate!)
You KNOW you want her. There's no doubt about it. The question now becomes, "Does she want you?"
She smiles at you... but is it a friendly or a flirtatious smile? You saw her leave with another guy after class... was he her boyfriend? She flirted with you last week, even touched your shoulder... then completely ignored you the other day. Does she like you?
How can you tell? You really need to know this before you begin the "pursuit" don't you?
Perhaps the most common question posed on every dating discussion forum concerns "reading women" and trying to figure out whether they like you or not. The poster usually describes his situation, what he did, what she did, and then asks, "Does this mean she likes me?" Or, "Does this mean she doesn't like me?"
At this point you want to take a deep breath... smile... laugh... and think to yourself...I'll get her!
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Bro WB,
I love your thread and hope this thread continue for another 20 years.
Took me a few minutes to understand what the above post was discussing. I managed to get the meaning after reading through 3 times.
A ladies man or modern Don Juan met his match after meeting the dream gal he aching for.
I agreed that this will be the kiss of death and he may lost his rational thinking including marriage. I have seen one of my friends behave like this.
He became needy and lost in depression. Trying to meet the gal or video call every sec. Became so serious that he was caught in no man's land. He lost everything after 6 months because the gal cheated on him.
Luckily he woke up after 1 year of deep slumber and with his family and friends help, he rebuild his life.
Hope yo have a an amazing day.
Cheers.