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Originally Posted by duckking

And here is the rebuttal.



This is really terrible advice. I don't know how you can ask someone to go have babies without a contextual understanding of their background, capability etc. There are consequnces here which has to be borne later.

As for those reading these 'advice'. Please think carefully. You sure having a baby will get your wife her PR/citizenship? You may have seen a odd case here and there, but bear in mind one example does not refute the general. It is easy to produce a baby, but very hard to raise. The baby needs diapers, milk powders, clothes, schools and what have you. For whatever reason you want to produce a baby, please make sure you can pay. I can assure you, 5 years down the road, if you are having problems, hurricane88 will NOT be offering to pay your child's childcare fees for you. Heck, he won't even be saying sorry. He simply NOT the kind of people who admits his mistakes. If you want to go make a baby, please think hard. And then harder.

And no, there is nothing here about differing perspective and all that, this is not something we can 'agree to disagree', that stuff. This is just purely and simply terrible advice, whatever the intentions are.

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