Originally Posted by warbird
I started this thread 8 years ago. I hv learned so much here and I hv had a great time in SG, beyond my wildest imaginations.
A big thank you to all who hv posted on this thread. Even very negative and sarcastic ones hv been very helpful. They hv forced me to take a hard look at myself and my "theories." They hv made me a much better person!! You make my day!!
Merely reading the posts will not change anything. You must become THE MAN, at your subconcious mind.
Repetition and practice are required.
Here is a brief article by a guru to remind every man what he must do. From a slightly different perspective.
"Let me tell you the most important thing you must know about women:
YOU MUST BE DOMINANT WITH A WOMAN. FROM THE FIRST SECOND YOU MEET HER, TILL THE LAST SECOND SHE IS IN YOUR LIFE. (And if you’re a “nice guy”, you need to be more dominant with everyone.)
Being dominant is not the same as being CONTROLLING. Controlling guys are usually INSECURE guys.
Dominance means that women (and everybody else) have NO INFLUENCE AND NO POWER over you especially psychological or emotional power.
It means that YOU have the power, YOU have the influence. And it means that you are not NEEDY for any woman, because you KNOW you can get plenty of beautiful women.
Dominance means you NEVER give a woman what she asks for, and means you have the confidence to never fail this test. You must never, ever, give a woman exactly what she asks.
Sometimes, this requires a little humor to prevent an argument. (WB's note: Be non-reactive and very playful. You maintain your stronger frame.)
I repeat, NEVER give a woman what she asks for, unless she is on the verge of a mind-blowing orgasm after endless teasing by you, and she says “God, please, please, please, give it to me!” And then, maybe then, you can give her what she wants, or maybe tease her some more...
The irony of all this is that by NOT giving a woman what she asks or wants, she will actually DESIRE YOU for being strong and not giving in to her demands.
On the other hand, giving in to a woman’s demands actually DISGUSTS her, it makes her feel you are a sissy, and she will LOSE her desire for you.
Women love STRENGTH. Confidence and dominance are evidence of strength. (That’s what she feels, anyway.)
So, no matter what, NEVER give a woman what she says she wants. Pulling this off right requires both confidence and dominance, which always go hand in hand.
Only when you reach this emotional/psychological level, which women can intuitively sense, will you be THE MAN.
I’m not saying to turn off your emotions forever, I’m not saying to laugh at her mom’s brain tumor, or to never cry for something horrific, but all that sensitive, crying stuff is really a load of B.S.
No woman on earth is sexually attracted to an overly emotional guy, to a guy who hangs on her every word, or to a guy whose mission in life is to tend to her requests."
You can't afford to forget that you're THE PRIZE, not even for a split second. Sometimes I still forget when I meet a very cute SYT of my type. I need to do better, much better.
Don't forget to be direct, sexual and playful.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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