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Originally Posted by warbird
Many men believe that they are NOT good enough for a very pretty girl of their type because of various reasons. That is the defeatist mindset. Your mindset is your MASTER and you're his SLAVE.
One common reason for lowering one's value is perceived lack of financial success. But everything is relative.
Supposing you're down and out temporarily, but you're very ambitious and confident, always working hard to improve yourself in every way possible, you're very attractive to many girls. The key is your mindset and self mastery. 人穷志不穷!
Some bros actually do very well with very attractive girls/women by spending surprisingly little. Some spend little by choice, some because of budget constraints.
One thing is certain: Throwing money at gals will actually turn them off, subconsciously. Those who like to spend big money such as hanging big flowers will never get it. For such men, big money actually prevents his gals from falling for them. They will get the pussies, but never their hearts.
I call it the "King Fuchai Paradox."
Read about how King Fuchai lost Xi Shi to a slave of a slave. The King spent big on Xi Shi n gave whatever she wanted. The results were truly tragic. To Xi Shi's subconscious mind, she was the PRIZE and he was weak and had zero value...such a man is always repulsive to girls/women. Most men don't learn from history. Very sad.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Bro WB,
Thank you very much for a fantastic thread.
I love the fact that you willing to share great views and experiences in your life. Also telling us where are our pitfalls.
Just learn that life is meaning and that living put some meaning in life. Simple words that not easy understood. Another words we need to be creative and makes things happen. Sort of create our little history.
Money is relative and financial success is not a benchmark for success. Love the way you quoted "Xi Shi and King Fuchai many times in this thread".
Hope we can continue this thread for an unforeseenable future.
Hope you do well and always happy!!.