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Originally Posted by warbird
Bro,
Thank you so much!
No, I'm not a master.
Yeah, I'm still going strong and still learning everyday.
Recently, it dawned on me that one of the most important factors for connecting w/ a girl is to understand her as a person. It's hard for her to resist a man who truly understands her deepest fears, insecurity, aspirations, dreams and emotions.
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In the last few weeks, I met two SYTs, both aged 18-19 yo. One of them XX wanted BY very quickly.
The other one TY is slightly prettier n taller, but she appears cold n aloof. Almost the same attitude as my legal wife when we first met decades ago. I mentioned to TY about becoming my LP twice. She remained silent.
A few days ago I met TY again. Remembering what my wife told me why she was cold and aloof, I had a good talk w/ TY.
I told her: You appear cold and aloof because of three factors. Your innate personality. You have a very strict family upbringing. And you hv adopted this attitude to ward off many men from trying to hit on you. You're actually a friendly and kind person.
Minutes later, she wanted to be my LP! I offered her a modest package for full time BY. She said: You serious? I replied yeah. She said, for how long? I said: At least one yr. She said: OK.
BTW, I never praised her looks, figure and youthfulness. I actually pointed out some of her minor physical flaws.
If I reacted to her apparently negative mental frame, game over. In the past, I might start thinking: Perhaps this young doll doesn't like me...my behaviour n body language/voice would also become negative.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Bro WB
Thank you for taking time to reply to me.
I learned another lesson from you.
Gal will be tough to resist a man if you understand her completely. Is as though the gal can tell her problems to someone listening to her.
That is a very good technique.
Cheers.