Let me just comment here...
This is the modus operandi of Viet gal...all of the gals operate in similar fashion as though taught by the same masters...
To me, working in ktv is a Working Lady (WL)....
Your gal is just typical ang pai who had enough sex daily and also more than enough bfs to feed her...
Back in 2007 to 2009, there were many of similar gals operating in JC and GL....
If you think your gal is any different then you are sadly mistaken...
I had been flying to Vietnam monthly for the past 10 years....I can get gals to kiss me or I kiss her....This is no big deal...Viet gals are more liberally minded than you think....
Introduce to family members or her mother as bf is really nothing special...Enough of those and still can break the next day or week...For me, no more keen to visit any of this family and clearly a waste of time....btw, anything can be stage just for you to enjoy and trust...another mind fuck...
What she is hoping to do is to get you kc and for her to seek out some concern when she sad and upset with her regulars...she knew you are married and no point to talk any marriage with you...
often we encountered a gal that can give you great sex and next month heard she got married in her province...to us sinkees will never understand such mentality.
Suggest you read this thread to get some ideas and understand Viet gals culture...
https://sbfjust.rocks/showthread.php?t=64297
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Originally Posted by chaoslord
Bro WB has such a great thread ongoing here. I’m really impressed with your experiences, writing and willingness to share.
My Own Experience
Over the last 1 year I have become close to VM, a 27 yr old KTV VietBu. I am 36 and married.
From my experience of chionging, Viets are more transactional that ATBs who generally go for the long game (i.e they try to KC you). Viets are more fuck-and-forget. I have been to most of the Viet KTVs (Starlight, P9, Supreme, Ace Club, First Club etc) and most of the girls have a similar modus operandi.
This girl somehow got me quite hooked. She’s an Ang Pai at one of the larger clubs with monthly earnings higher than 90% of locals. As with most of the girls there, she has a price and would go hotels after SH or with her regulars. She does not play the KC game herself. You pay the money, do the deed and off she goes.
We like each other and have gotten quite close over time which sometimes does mind fuck me abit. She is open with me and would tell me when XXX has booked her go hotel etc. Her view is that she works at a KTV, there is no need to lie about her activities. Sometimes I wish she does but her character is one that is honest.
She does certain actions that makes me feel special.
- She lets me go to her room and introduces me as her bf to her landlord who is strict about bringing guys back. I am the only person that she allows to go up and am sure of this. I still maintain a transactional approach to keep things clean.
- She is very open with me and tells me the various aspects of her experiences which is mostly centered around the KTV. I know literally all her regular customers. I asked her if any of her customers know me and her reply was that if they did, it would mean that I am no longer special to her.
- Interestingly though, all her friends at her KTV know who I am. I am not a big spender…I go for 2 towers during HH and never open bottles.
- She talks openly about me to her friends and family.
- We kiss. This is a big deal for her and I know that she is very particular about this. To her fucking is one thing, kissing is another. She has walked out of hotels before as her client insist on gfe and she simply refused. And this was a regular customer of hers. Needless to say, he never called back.
The thing she likes about me is that I give her space and never question or judge her about her job. It does drive me crazy at times when she messages “I am at XXX house now” but I come to realise that is just how she communicates. There is a big spender that has been wooing her for the longest time (paid her $5k for a 3 day holiday and books her like 2-3 times a week during SH). I told her that having a bf is a deathknell for her KTV job.
I have come to accept all this and go along for the ride. Any views from bros would be nice. |