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Originally Posted by warbird
Last but not least, I like to share the following email from another Ang Mo guru:
Here Are 3 Essential Alpha Man Traits - Do You Have Them?
What's it take to be a man these days?
I find myself asking that question a lot. If you watch young boys and how a lot of them are being brought up these days, you'll find yourself shaking your head as you ask it.
What are the important parts of being a MAN?
Just because you have the equipment doesn't mean that women perceive you as being "MANLY." In fact, "manliness" has gotten a bad rap.
And that has led a great many of us (including ME for many years) to believe that we should be ashamed of being men.
Well, first and most importantly, you have to learn how to be comfortable with just BEING a man.
With all the stupid messages you get from the media on things to "enhance" your masculinity, you'd think that there was something basically wrong with us right from the start, wouldn't you?
You're not long enough, hard enough, rich enough, or good looking enough to get the woman you want - that's what They tell you.
But the reality is that women are attracted to a man from emotions - NOT appearance.
(Yes, we know that a hot guy will get more initial interest, but he can't KEEP it if he isn't showing her the right Alpha traits.)
So here are my top 3 traits for you to work on your masculinity and demonstrating your Alpha Manhood.
GOOD! I knew you had the stones.
Here we go...
*** ALPHA MAN TRAIT 1) Initiative - Leadership drive
Women LOVE leaders.
They love it when a guy takes the lead and just makes the decision and goes with it.
Even if he's wrong.
I make it a point when I'm out to ask women what they find most un-attractive about men, and one thing comes up more than anything else...
Indecisiveness and wishy-washy behavior.
Guys are trying to be "easy going" and cool, but they're actually being perceived as weak-kneed little girls.
The great thing about taking initiative is that by doing this, you actually demonstrate two other POWERFUL traits that draw women in like moths to a flame: Ambition and Power.
Just by demonstrating the initiative with a woman, you are sub-communicating all the right things about your masculinity and drive.
In order to take this initiative, most men need to feel...
*** ALPHA MAN TRAIT 2) Assertiveness/Confidence
It's probably no secret to you that I don't cater to "political correctness."
This story should help you understand how I feel:
There was a priest addressing his congregation, and he said to them during his sermon: "There are millions of people out there starving in the world today... and the problem is YOU DON'T GIVE A DAMN about it!"
Then he said, "And the BIGGER problem is that MORE of you are shocked by me saying 'damn' in church than you are about the fact that there are millions of people starving out there!"
WOW.
And the thing about confidence is that it really translates into another word that allows us to understand it better.
Confidence
is
CERTAINTY.
***ALPHA MAN TRAIT 3) Emotional Control/Emotional Strength
Look, women are NOT attracted to men that cry on their shoulder. They're NOT attracted to men who are always talking about their "feelings."
Women want a man that is in control of his own emotional world.
You may hear women complain about the guy who's "not in touch with his emotions," but the reality is that most of the guys who seem to think they are in touch with their emotions are just PUPPETS of their emotions.
There are really relatively few cases of guys who are strong and emotionally controlled who just wake up one day and freak out because their emotions had been bottled up inside them and went thermo-nuclear.
I think a lot of 'sensitive' guys are afraid of this.
SHOCK someone... Be different.
Ask yourself: How alive are you willing to be?
Dare to live your life on your own terms, and you'll feel a sense of liberation and Alpha Masculinity that will open up a new world to you.
It's the world where you get what you want - and what you deserve........................................... .................................................
Wishing you confidence and success with women - With HONOR and integrity.
Mr. XYZ
Notice how he keeps mentioning emotional control...
Do you get upset, even angry, easily? Sometimes anxious n fearful? Often worried n unhappy? Occasionally lonely n frustrated?
Bro, you hv zero self mastery. Even if u suddenly receive USD 10 billion tax free today, u will still be unhappy. Sorry for being so blunt. The good news is that you hv incredible room for improvement. There is no where to go but UP, hahaha, just like me a very short time ago. 
IMHO, in life, a man's happiness n success r directly proportionate to the degree of his emotional control/self mastery. If he is a very rare man w/ absolute self mastery, he is unconditionally happy. He doesn't need money or pussies or anything else, but they still flock to him...hahaha.
Just my 2 cents. Comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Bro WB
Thanks for posting angmo guru post about alpha male.
Although I dislike alpha male but I like the 3 traits -
1) Initiative - Leadership drive
2) Assertiveness/Confidence
3) Emotional Control/Emotional Strength
Very similar to other guru discussion about wussy guys, woman will like men who had the 3 traits above. Think men must have at least the trait 3 above.
At least be the MAN and hv to be be confident and initiative.
Agreed with you that if man possessed the self mastery then women may flock to him.
Hope you don't mind me quoting a long time forum here.
Just hope to learn from the experts here.
Have a great Sunday.