Originally Posted by warbird
Some random musings on the subject of health...
Like they say, "If you have health you have hope, if you have hope you have everything."
I hv been obsessed w/ healthy living since I was a teenager.
In the last 5-6 months, I hv tried to emulate ONLY the positive aspects of the lifestyle of hunter-gatherers. I hv continued to take nutritional n herbal supplements, which r totally unavailable to our ancient forebears.
The results r astonishing. My libido n virility r now as strong as when I was 20. I can now fxxk everyday n, at least some days, 2-3 times a day. My 2 young lao po r more exhausted after a prolonged session than I'm.
Let me digress.
IMHO, to completely satisfy a woman sexually, u need to fxxk her for at least 10 min. Of course u need to engage in foreplay n prime her pump by giving her multiple orgasms w/ ur fingers n/or tongue 1st. Then u must insert ur didi into her meimei n rock her for at least 10 min, preferably 20 or longer. It feels different, more satisfying n more complete, my 2 lao po both told me that. They never seem to get enuff w/ vaginal intercourse. It is associated w/ stronger n more prolonged oxytocin surge n more pleasure n more bonding, hehehe.
The problem is that many men can't last 10 min n they r clueless.
Here is proof ( taken from Revolutionary Sex written by an Ang Moh).
"It would be easy to just learn some techniques for
keeping your erection harder for a longer time (in
the “You” section of the book), and stop there, or
read a technique for stimulating her clitoris that will
drive her wild (in the “Her” section of the book, and
stop there… but those are the least important
aspects of what makes a great lover.
That stuff is just the mechanics. And women
don’t go crazy for even the best mechanical lovers
They go crazy for passion, intimacy, and a man
that can listen to their body and understand what it
is saying to them.
And the key to becoming that kind of lover is
difficult for me to communicate to you, man to man.
I believe to understand it properly you will have to
read through to the end.
Let me begin by telling you a little story…
A few years ago I was in bed with a woman for
the first time, giving her what I thought was the time
of her life. Judging from the noises she was making,
I was driving her crazy with pleasure… which was my
intention because I really liked her and could see her
being part of my life for a while, and the first time
with a new girlfriend is always a bit special.
Then something strange happened. About ten
minutes into the actual intercourse part of the sex,
she put her hands on my chest and asked me to
stop, and then, almost tearfully, she asked me if she
was doing something wrong.
To say the least, I was confused!
Then she told me that she was having the best
sex of her life… but that she couldn’t understand why
I hadn’t come yet… she had never been with a man
who had lasted over ten minutes before… and
because I was so PASSIONATELY into what I was
doing, she was sure that I was about to come… and
then didn’t.
So she was worried that I was trying hard to
come… but couldn’t get there because she was doing something wrong or because I wasn’t attracted to
her enough.
Here’s another little detail: This woman was no
virgin, and no inexperienced teenager. She was over
30 and had plenty of boyfriends in her past, both
long-term and short-lived relationships over the
years.
It was then that I began to realize that the things
that I was doing in bed that I thought were
ordinary… were not.
But more than that, I realized that it was not hard
to be an amazing lover… because most other men,
truly, are completely clueless when it comes to
giving sexual pleasure to a woman.
When I realized why she had stopped me, I
stroked the hair from her face, gently, and reassured
her as honestly and sweetly as I could that she was
doing nothing wrong and that I found her very
attractive… because I could see that she really was
feeling insecure and worried.
Then I gave her an evil grin and told her to fasten
her seatbelt, because she was about to have a
seriously wild ride.
Although she had brought herself to orgasm
before with a vibrator, that night was the first time
that she had ever had an orgasm with a man.
After this experience, I began to seriously
consider writing a book… and so I began to more
actively try to figure out what I was doing differently from other men, and what MORE I could do to
improve my sexual relationships with women.
For what it’s worth, I was not born with any
special skills except for one: I am an exceptionally
good listener and communicator.
The women that I have dated over the years felt
extremely comfortable in talking to me about their
sexual needs.
And I listened.
And I learned.
And I have given many, many women their first
orgasm since then.............................................. ........"
Cheers n hv a great day!!
Bro WB
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