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Good morning to dear bro

Getting a girl to chase you sounded very appealing.

Certainly worth a quote and readup.

Guy needs to be player and play the game well.

Since today is weekend and tomorrow all back to work

Enjoy yourself and dun get too hangup.

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

The following is great advice from a respected Ang Mo guru on attraction:

How to Get a Girl to Chase You (And Win the Game)

Ok.

So you followed yesterday’s advice. And you escalated. Got the kiss. Maybe closed the deal.

Here’s where a lot of guys go wrong and blow it.

I get dozens of emails from guys around the world wondering why some girl suddenly lost interest in them.

Once I get the details out of them it becomes crystal clear.

They gave their hand away way TOO SOON.

Have you ever had a girl who was once hot for you get cold and distant within a couple weeks?

If I had to guess why, I would say that you got too comfortable too quickly, and stopped PLAYING THE GAME.

I know I know.. we all hate ‘the game.’

But you have to play it.

Why?

Because women love going after a guy who is a challenge.

They love it.

—————————-Hint——————————
She’s not different. Stop telling yourself your situation is different. It’s not. “The Game” is supposed to feel unnatural.

A few years back I hooked up with a girl I had wanted for years. Then I got lazy. Thought she was “different”. It ended up with me getting the shit kicked out of me in a parking lot. If you ever got “crazy” over a girl… read this (LINK)
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Women love not knowing what the deal is. Sure, they say they hate it. But they will keep chasing that feeling.

And when you don’t give them “the chase” they usually find another guy who isn’t so easy to figure out.

So how to do you stay a challenge?

For some of us its easy… If you’ve got a reputation around your social circle as a “player”, or are seen as having really high statusby the girl, you don’t have the play ‘the game’ as hard.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN YOU DON’T HAVE TO PLAY IT.

Trust me, I made that mistake. Sometimes I’ve even made the mistake of thinking I have to show a girl MORE interest because she thinks I’m a player and I need to prove I’m not.

Big Mistake.

The whole reason the girl liked you in the first place was because of your ‘player like’ qualities.

Don’t hide them, and don’t give in to the temptation to ‘drop the games.’

Here are the three biggest signs you are about to FUCK UP.

1. You start thinking “I don’t want to play games with this chick. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know?”

2. You think “This girl is different, I don’t have to play games with her.”

3. You think “She definitely likes me. We’re past the point I need to play games.”

The minute any of those thoughts creep into your mind, re-read this lesson. And DO NOT convince yourself that she is different.

SHE IS NOT DIFFERENT.

She wants to chase you. She wants a challenge. She wants a guy she can not completely figure out.

——————————-Preview—————————-
Texting is deadly effective way to play “mind games” with a girl. Tomorrow we discuss how to use texting to keep a girl’s mind fixated on YOU.
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How to be a challenge.

A lot guys think that when I say you can’t express interest this means you can’t let a girl know you are attracted to her.

WRONG.

You HAVE to let her know you are attracted to her.

Express your sexual intent and attraction all you want.

That is perfectly fine.

But, do no let her know you want more than that. (for at least the first 3 or 4 months)

SHE CAN NOT KNOW YOU WANT HER AS A GIRLFRIEND.

You have to be stone cold impossible to read.

Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.

Let her wonder.

———————Golden Nugget————————-
One of my favorite things to do at an end of a date or hanging out with a girl is to say “see you soon.”

This drives a girl crazy because she feels like you might be blowing her off and becomes afraid she will never see you again.

This is completely different then most guys who try to plan the next date before the first date ends.
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That is the art of the chase. The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she is in love with you.

As David D once said “Give her the gift of missing you.”

Make it Happen,

Your Guru

I hv some musings on BY-ing.

Having money will let u get the chio pussy fast, but you will hv turned her off in her subconscious mind, u become very unattractive...so money is really a hindrance.

Making ur mistress fall for u will take time, effort, mental gymnastics, etc. It's a very difficult game. Of course, if u can give her sexual pleasure she has never experienced before, it's a great help, but by itself it's not enuff. There r other powerful emotional forces that repel in a patron-mistress RS, hehehe.

If u are already paying a gal, how could u be a challenge? Do say NO to her whenever justified n use push-pull n let her know you could walk away anytime if ur boundaries r ever violated. But u need to walk a fine balance between providing her security n the ever present uncertainty...give her hope mixed w/ doubt.

Any comments?

Cheers!

Bro WB