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Originally Posted by johnny_johnny

Yes, I pick up & meet Girl C outside KTV at PC joint. After a HH outing, walking over to my car, I meet Girl C (CQ) and Girl J (GZ) both are room-mate standing at the lift lobby of PC joint, waiting for the rain to stop. Both of them was in t-shirt & jeans just finish their night class at nearby school. I approach them, 送你们两一程回家吧. Both agree. And so I exchange contact with Girl C. Girl are at the most natural when they are without any makeup which draw my attention to Girl C. Both of them is still schooling and will pop up at PC joints when they do not have any lesson.

Girl C is from CQ, her character was similar to hotpot 麻辣火锅. It's a challenge for me. I accept rejection from her several times. I almost wanted to give up on her. I grab her hand, and whisper to her ear, "我们交往”, she did not say anything but a sweet smile and a nod of head. Took me months to break the barrier within her and conquered her.

It can be frustrating at times but it is never easy to continue. Know that when you got your girl, you will always worry that you might lose them to other guys or if you dun love them enough. I initiate messaging to her most of the times. A bad mistake made, which give her the impression that you couldn't do without her. She have a upper hand on you.

With proper advise, I manage to correct myself. Understand the concept of less is more. Initiate less messaging to her, most of the times. Until today, I still finding initiating messaging to her difficult. I decrease day by day of messaging her. Give her enough hope in the relationship rather then giving her no hope. Similar to a rubber band, at time you need to pull and at time you need to release the tension drawing her closer to you rather you draw closer to her. A kiss on her cheeks and follow by more imitate as you continue. Women don't understand what their subconscious minds want. A good behaviour and attitude of yourself play the very important role. Im still learning and correct myself as I progress.

Nice share bro. Fully agreed with what you did