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Originally Posted by fallen.angel

Totally agree that local sg gals cheat as much as the PRC n Thai gals. How do you “cheat-proof” your women? It depends. Every woman and every situation is different – are you talking about a 19 year old gf the 2 of you just got together, or a 40+ year old wife/mother you have been married to for 2 decades? I have seen very stanch, mother of pre-teen kids, with very very strict upbringing cheat. I know another 40+ woman (wife’s best friend) who will cheat at the drop of the hat with a guy she liked decades ago – heck, they may already have for all I know and the other guy doesn’t even know she’s married with a schooling kid!! I’ve have had my fair share of being ogled by matured women, ugly ones, at Shanghai Dolly, trying to pick me up even when I was there with a group of PRC gals. And then there’s the 19 year old FL I was to meet last week – yes, I’m the “good kaki” LOL I’ll be bonking her later this week.

How to “cheat-proof”? I don’t know… I don’t have a fool-proof method but all I know is that women cheat because its in their nature (some of them) or by circumstances. What I know though, is how to detect and catch them. I always tell my subordinates at work: you want to catch a thief/fraud, think like one. If you don’t think like one (and put yourself in his/her shoes), you’ll never catch one cos a cheat/thief/fraud will always conceal and cover their tracks to avoid detection and being caught. If we eat out ourselves, it makes us good detectives to begin with. The worst enemy for the cheater is complacency. We give it to them. By being “ignorant” and nonchalant. Take your time and let the other party let down their guard. Never raise their suspicion by raising yours. There’s a Chinese saying… you’ll bound to meet the tiger if you go up the mountains often enough.

Her phone is the place where you’ll find most of the evidences – she will guard it with her life. Her change in behaviour. Change in routines. Are there periods of time of the day/night where she’s uncontactable? Change in dressing. More conscious of her appearance, body, etc. Check her phone bill/phone records. Look for changes in patterns. Is sex different now – routines, patterns, positions, frequencies, etc. When you suspect something, DO NOT act on it immediately. Resist the urge to react. Keep your cool and act normal. DO NOT raise any alarms of hers.

Anyways, I could go on and on but that’s not my forte or the purpose of this thread but I do think that its more than sexual and emotional connection – money comes into play too.

The above post is very informative and definitive.

Happy New Year.