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Originally Posted by tarma69

Hi bro WB,

You are missing my point here. It is not about whether the money alone is enough or not enough for your dolls' pussy/heart/mind/soul pursuits. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't see any of your r/s and sex gurus advocating using monetary leverage as a way to start playing this "badass gentleman" game with the lady. But you did. Hence, that is my contention: Granted - while no one is perfect and everyone has their own insecurities and egoistic pursuits, including yours truely - the fact remains that you used your financial abilities to negotiate and secure the bao agreement to place yourself on higher ground FIRST, then you claim to become the "self-assured and dominant" emotional mastery player when the playing field is already heavily skewed to your advantage.

Nothing wrong with that if this is your cup of tea. Just want to call a spade, a spade, that's all. No offence, bro.

Gong Xi Fa Cai! Cheers.

Originally Posted by chenzong

In defence of Bro WarBird, whom I have known for many years, he has NEVER claimed that he used all those "seduction methods" without backing up with his money. To him, all these methods are used to back up his money, and it is what he wants to see on his journey of being the man he wants to be.

It is his journey, and I think he is happy with that journey. I have my own journey which I am happy with. I seriously do not see the need for the attacks upon his character.

Originally Posted by tarma69

Bro, I wish to clarify here that I've made my comments because bro WB mentioned that "criticisms and comments are welcome" in his postings; else I'd just keep my mouth shut and continue to be a silent reader... I've nothing against bro WB and am just speaking my mind out loud objectively since he has given the green light here. I hope that my comments are not perceived to be attacking his character.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by chenzong

Yup, that is my point too - bro WarBird has his own game to play, and he uses his ability to leverage money. Whether it is "fair" or not, seriously speaking, nobody wins by being fair. You might as well say I have an unfair advantage in other ways as well (many women find my voice and my mannerism sexy, ala Fei Yuqing). All of us play the game according to our strengths.

Very good discussions by two seniors here.

Thank you so much for valuable insights.