Originally Posted by warbird
Good morning!
If your legal wife/mistress/lao po/GF/lover is a very attractive SYT/young woman, you should expect many hungry, frustrated n wussy men to hit on
her everyday. You should welcome that. Because it's a strong confirmation that your doll is very attractive n desirable. And, as a prestigious badass gentleman, you hv zero jealousy n zero fear of losing her, yeah?
You hv zero fear because you hv the mindset that a 100 very attractive young women of your type, mostly non WLs, are calling you n wanting to fuck you every day...it may actually be a blessing if you lose your ALL your current gals. Believe it in your S mind n see miracles happen!
Not to mention that you also hv formidable emotional mastery n self mastery. Many hungry n desperate young men after your doll? Bring it on! They better watch out because u COULD easily walk away w/ their prettiest dolls, IF, and this is a big IF, they hv even one GF good enough for you. Of course, you should do so only when it's safe. These desperate men may resort to violence. You COULD, but you won't want to.
I just received the following email from David Deangelo on the above subject. He has sent me the same email several times in the past. I first read his ebooks about 8 years ago.
Competition From Other Men - How To Handle It
Hi Bro Warbird,
Make 5 small tweaks to the way that you carry yourself (in other words, how you stand and walk).
These will automatically cause your body to project what's called PRIMAL DOMINANCE.
When you do, it's scientific:
You trigger feelings in a woman that she can neither HELP nor RESIST...a literal animal attraction that draws her to YOU (whether she wants to meet a man right now or not).
Click here to make it happen TONIGHT!
***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER***
I am recently divorced and found myself having a
hard time making connections with women after
being in a 9-year relationship. Before I met my
ex-wife I considered myself as a "player" and had
little trouble finding girls to go out with.
After being out of the scene for so long, I had
lots of trouble trying to get back in to the
swing of things. Your ebook and emails have
instantly put me back in the game and I am now
getting dates with very attractive women! It's
been amazing!!
Thank You!
Now for the question. All these attractive women
have brought something into my dates that I am
not used to, Men (Cock Blockers)! Currently, I
am dating this "bomb-shell" occasionally and when
we go out on a date, men will hit on her as soon
as they get a chance. If I turn my back for
second, some guy will try to make eye contact or
say something to her. I don't blame the guys
because she is very hot, but how do I deal with
this in a way that shows I am 100% confident?
Typically, I just laugh and continue to have a
good time by ignoring the lame ass attempts to
pick up on my date, but there has to be a way
that I can turn this around to make me look more
confident in her eyes.
You're the man,
B from Colorado
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well then...welcome back!
I've noticed that the period after breaking up with a long-term girlfriend or spouse is often a difficult one.
I think it's easy for men (and women) to become so comfortable and emotionally dependent in a relationship that they experience a lot of FEAR
when ending that relationship...
"What's going to happen?"
"Will I ever meet another woman?"
"How do I get started?"
...etc.
I can remember breaking up with long-term girlfriends in years past, and feeling an empty, fearful, LONELY combination of emotions in my gut that was HORRIBLE.
That ALONE feeling is enough to cause a lot of problems.
Add to that, not knowing where to start, what to do, or how to "get your game back" if you had it in the past, and you usually get a bad situation.
I've learned that knowing how to go out anytime and meet women has a couple of MAJOR benefits when it comes to this area:
1) When you know that you can meet women anytime you want, it makes you stop acting so NEEDY and CLINGY in a relationship. Most needy and
clingy Wuss behaviors are rooted in the FEAR that you'll never be able to find another woman.
2) When it comes to ENDING a relationship, this skill makes things MUCH easier. Too many guys stay in relationships that are bad for them, and
are afraid to END a relationship because of that deeply-rooted insecurity that comes from not knowing how to walk out the door anytime, anywhere and meet women. When you know how to do this, you won't try to hold on like a girly-man, sacrifice your own respect and dignity, pleading and begging, and ultimately make the situation much worse than it would have been if you would have just walked away.
In short, what I'm trying to say is that I think understanding this area called "How to attract women" is KEY to having a good relationship.
When you have that inner confidence and KNOWING, it makes you more attractive...period.
Now let's talk about what to do when there is competition from other guys...
First I want to talk about what I believe is at the ROOT of the problem:
1) INSECURITY.
2) JEALOUSY.
When you are insecure, you're always wondering if some other guy is going to come along and steal your girl.
This often shows up as a combination of feelings that make you worry about losing your girl, and at the same time worrying about not being able to find another one if you DO lose this one.
This is a BAD, BAD thing because it then CLOUDS YOUR THINKING, and creates an illusion that the woman you're with is BETTER than she is, and that you're WORSE than you are.
We're talking about some deep issues here, but this is the stuff that triggers the ULTIMATE WUSS types of behaviors.
Then, as if things weren't bad enough, you go out with your girl, and other guys start hitting on her right in front of you.
This triggers MORE insecurity, and then the REAL problem...JEALOUSY.
Jealousy is an incredibly powerful emotion.
It often leads people to KILL people they love.
One scientist wrote an entire book about Jealousy, and basically claimed that it was the most powerful and important emotion ever! (The book is called "The Dangerous Passion"...referring to jealousy)
When you're out with your girl, you turn around to order a drink, and when you turn BACK around there's some guy talking to her with that "I'd love to take you home and do things that the lord forbids", it can trigger a few emotions...
This is very natural. Animals have this same response in similar situations. I personally believe that we come pre-wired with BOTH of these things:
- We come pre-wired to want women that other men already have (Don't covet thy neighbor's wife).
- We come pre-wired to feel jealousy if we suspect that our spouse is cheating or if we think that someone is going to take them from us.
Again, normal and natural stuff.
If Yoda were here, he'd probably say:
"Jealousy is useless...
...Jealousy leads to anger, anger leads to INSECURE WUSSY BEHAVIOR... and insecure Wussy behavior leads to the DARK SIDE."
Now, jealousy doesn't always lead to insecure WUSSY behavior, sometimes it leads to insecure DUMB ASS behavior, like getting into a fight, or shooting someone.
Some men enjoy fights and violence.
And some women have no problem dating a man who likes to beat other men up (or beat her up).
I personally think that violence and hurting other people is the IGNORANT way to deal with things.
But, I also know that there are a lot of guys out there that don't share my views.
The POINT I'm trying to make is that insecurity and jealousy make people do all kinds of stupid and thoughtless things.
These emotions take over your mind and body, and can trigger some of the most short-sighted behaviors you'll ever experience.
These are complex emotions that have evolved over millions and millions of years...and they're not going away anytime soon. In many cases, they literally take control of your mind and body.
For instance...
Let's say you've just broken up with your girlfriend or wife, and it took you a long time to finally get a date with an attractive woman. Maybe you were feeling insecure and didn't know if you could meet another woman, and let's say that the breakup was hard on you as well.
Let's say you're out at a bar with your new date and you excuse yourself to use the boy's room... and when you get back, there are TWO big, handsome guys talking to your date, and she's laughing hysterically at what they're saying.
What would most guys do in this situation?
THEY'D FREAK. That's what.
All kinds of fear, jealousy, insecurity, etc. would INSTANTLY take over, and there would be thoughts of her wanting to be with these guys, them taking her away, etc.
And what do most guys actually DO in one of these situations?
They walk over, act nervous, and try to take the girl away from the situation. And they make the mistake of making it OBVIOUS that they're all
freaked out, intimidated, jealous, and insecure.
This, of course, only makes the other guys feel more powerful, and makes the woman realize that she's with an insecure WUSS.
It becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, in most cases.
As a side note: I have met and know of guys who actually ENJOY picking up women who are out with other guys. It's a game to them.
And they've found that it's EASY, because most men are insecure, and most women don't want to be with a WUSS...
So what's the answer here?
(To Be Continued)
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