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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Originally Posted by chanyboy
I'm beginning to experience the priority sense oredi... u may be 'ongxa' here or 'ongxa' there.. but ultimately what comes first in priority is:

a) family mbrs (father, mother, grandfather, grandmother, bro, sis)
b) offspring of family mbrs
c) in-law (even bro inlaw gets better treatment) mbrs
d) good friends of the person
e) close frens of family mbrs acquainted with
f) then the so called "ongxa"
Not very true... agree to some only.

I feel that i am rank high in my viet g/f list of important people.
1) mother
2) father
3) silblings
4) ME
5)....who cares

Put in mind that i my not yet officially her ong xa. I believe that if i my her life partner, i will overtake her siblings. Putting father and mother as number 1 is not wrong... afterall its them who bring her to this world.

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Originally Posted by chanyboy
The family tenets in the Sg Planning Agency is, in terms of priority:
a) your partner
b) your kids
c) your family mbrs
My own planning agency...
1) Myself
2) Myself
3) Myself
4) g/f or wife
5) father and mother